Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Wednesday. 2 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 8, 2014 at 3:55pm

Brent, each person has to make their own decisions about how to respond to bullies. 

As for myself, every bully I ever stood up to backed down like a splat of snot. I have stood up in court when challenged on a child abuse case, I have faced down a plumber who told me he knew what he was doing, when he clearly was making a mess of the project. 

I guess fear goes after one has acquiesced as I did for 38 years. One day my dad came at me with his fist when we disagreed on how I was to manage my kids. I was 38, my kids were 10 years. old. We had run from an abusive husband and father. As my father approached me with his fist drawn back, I, sitting, lifted both my feet and shoved him as hard as I could. He did a back flop, the other side of a belly flop, and it knocked him out. When he came to consciousness I was standing over him and told him if her ever touched me I would sue him for everything he has and see that he got jail time. 

That was the end of my fear. Once one crosses the line of being a victim to being in charge of ones' life, everything changes.

I am smart enough to know there are some situations over which I have no control, but with a little forethought, one can usually dodge the bullets and blows. 

Stand tall, head held high, shoulders firm, feet anchored to the ground, a spine of steel and face the foe with competence and confidence. You do not exist to be a victim, nor a bully. You are human being worthy of respect and able to take care of yourself. 

There are times you need help, or a shoulder to cry on. That is perfectly healthy and appropriate. So pick your friends carefully and get rid of the bullies in your life. 
Happy Days! 

Comment by sk8eycat on April 8, 2014 at 3:53pm

Patricia, Joan, and Spud...I recommend a daily visit to LOLcats (or the Hotdogs page) until you get tired of it.  Some of the other divisions of Cheezburger are...well...sick, but they may occasionally give some people a laugh or two.  But the cats are still the best for giggles and AWWWWs.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 8, 2014 at 1:17pm

Loren, Loren, Loren! You did it! Good for you. 

Thanks for the lead to your blog! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 8, 2014 at 12:00pm

Patricia, I love it. You are all decked out, even with a red flag. What a way to go. I will be thinking of you as you scoot by the daffodils and tulips. "Happy Trails to You!"

Comment by sk8eycat on April 8, 2014 at 11:29am

It's been said before in here, and elsewhere, that family is the people you happen to be born into; friends are the family you choose.  Or something like that.

Comment by Brent Feeney on April 8, 2014 at 11:10am

Hi Mindy, nice to meet you. =)  Hope all is going well with you.

Comment by Brent Feeney on April 8, 2014 at 11:06am

Thanks Ian. No, it hasn't been easy the last year-plus, but I (and my brother) have been hanging in as best as we can. We'll be all right, no matter what.

Comment by Brent Feeney on April 8, 2014 at 11:04am

Don't blame you Spud. I'm pretty non-confrontational too, for the most part. 

Comment by Brent Feeney on April 8, 2014 at 11:03am

Thanks Flying. =)  It's been a rough year-plus, no doubt. I'm glad my sister thought enough to ask me to help out with mom. It can be a bit of a strain at times, with the shuttling back-and-forth and what not, but I'm still glad to lend her a hand.

I have NO idea what that guy was so upset about either. I asked him why he objected to David's stuff and the plugging of his radio show, but he never answered AFAIK. Oh well...

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 8, 2014 at 10:59am

I also avoid confrontation most of the time.


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