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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Idaho Spud on March 30, 2014 at 3:10pm

Joan, I agree about Napoleon.

Napoleon, I like most of your comments, but can't abide your "chaotic, disorienting, cacophonous, nerve rattling" audio/video presentations.  

A lot of them are also gross and repulsive to me.  I hop on past them quick like a bunny.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 30, 2014 at 10:08am

Heh!  I have always been rather scornful of what the Disney company did to ice shows in North America.  They didn't advertise the principal skater's names, for one thing.  It was always, "Starring: Snow White," or "Cinderella," or something. That meant that the champion skaters didn't want to tour with them...I mean, who would want to be anonymous after all the work and sweat and pain it takes to get to Nationals and the Olympics?  (I wonder what they were paying their principal skaters.  Union minimum?  That's what Holiday paid first-year line skaters, but we were all so daffy about skating, and so young, we would probably have done it for free.)

Comment by sk8eycat on March 30, 2014 at 9:07am

Mindy, thanks for thinking of me...that was a weird quake; it was relatively close, but didn't even rattle the windows here.

Here's something that almost matches the mental picture I had when I first heard that Disney, Inc. had bought Ice Follies AND Holiday....

Bizarro- Disney on Ice (too funny)

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 29, 2014 at 8:06pm

Napoleon, I have already told you I could not watch more than a few seconds of your film. It was chaotic, disorienting, cacophonous, nerve rattling, I felt as though I were going mad ... kind of like when I watch commercial TV or listen to Republicans politicking. 

No thank you! I need and appreciate anything that clears my mind, that gives me a calm, quiet place when and where I can think things through. Where I can pay attention to my senses, thus using my whole mind and body to think and feel my knowing, 

You posted somewhere that Atheist Nexus was responding well to your postings. Well, I see no evidence of it. As for myself, your sparks of wisdom amaze me, and the chaos of audio and video you present, I quickly delete or turn off, or have no interest in seeing them. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 29, 2014 at 7:39pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 29, 2014 at 7:28pm

Patricia, how good of you to remember that group. Of course! We Are Atheism. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 29, 2014 at 6:50pm

I think an atheist disaster relief charity  was started by Richard Dawkins' Foundation after the earthquake in Haiti a few years ago, but it wasn't Atheists Giving Aid. 

The reasoning is that people don't see us as charitable donors, and they don't know that organizations like Red Cross and Doctors Without Borders are entirely secular.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 29, 2014 at 6:08pm

Ruth, I am not in the earthquake area and I submitted the earthquake maps knowing sk8eycat lives in Burbank, CA. I am concerned because of that area being such a quake prone place and kind of keep an eye on it through Google Earth. She and her sister's safety concern me.

I live in eastern Washington state, Spokane, and we get little jolts now and then but not like the Pacific Coast rim. We were closed down by Mt St. Helens for a day or two and we all have little jars of ash as souvenirs. I had a potter make me pots using ash for my mother's and father's cremains. Mt St Helens ash makes beautiful glaze for pottery, a lovely brown that looks like soil.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 29, 2014 at 6:00pm

Patricia, looks like a perfect solution. How did you find out about them? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 29, 2014 at 5:59pm

sk8eycat thanks for the alternative view of earthquake activity. I have it Bookmarked. 

I am very relieved you are not in the hard shaking and are OK. Your sister is very fortunate to have you there even if you can't do anything about power outages. You can comfort her and reassure her. 


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