Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Discussion Forum

Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat 3 hours ago. 2 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 27, 2014 at 12:33am

“If Satan should ever replace God he would find it necessary to assume the attributes of Divinity.” 
― Robert A. HeinleinDouble Star

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 27, 2014 at 12:32am

“A slave cannot be freed, save he do it himself. Nor can you enslave a free man; the very most you can do is kill him!” 
― Robert A. HeinleinDouble Star

A restatement of Heinlein's thought: 

A woman cannot be freed, save she do it herself. Nar can you enslave a free woman; the very most you can do is kill her! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 27, 2014 at 12:30am

“Take sides! Always take sides! You will sometimes be wrong — but the man who refuses to take sides must always be wrong.”

~  Robert A. Heinlein

Robert A. Heinlein, Double Star

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2014 at 7:52pm

Ian, I just read your post of yesterday and am so sorry to learn of your two Mums failing health. You face a tough stage of life, made harder for being your Mums and both of them not doing well. I hope you have a good process for stress management and relaxation. If not, I can give you some referrals. 

So very happy to learn of the galleries and plays you saw. My curiosity got the better of me and I had to do some investigating. You keep very good company when you are away from us. 

Veronese: Magnificence in Renaissance Venice

Hans Holbein the Younger, 1533, The Ambassadors, The National Gallery, London 

Jan Van Eyck and the Arnolfini Wedding Portrait, 1434. The National Gallery, London 

The Painter's Father 1497, Attributed to Albrecht Dürer The National Gallery, London 

Comment by Grinning Cat on March 26, 2014 at 5:10pm

Mindy, those young women have amazing, tight harmonies and simply good music... thanks for the smile!

And those advertising fails... <grin!>

A coffee lover I know calls that one brand "Charbucks".

Patricia, there's even a hymn to coffee, by UU minister Christopher Raible, to the tune of "Holy, Holy, Holy":

Coffee, Coffee, Coffee,
Praise the strength of coffee.
Early in the morn we rise with thoughts of only thee.
Served fresh or reheated,
Dark by thee defeated,
Brewed black by perk or drip or instantly.

(two more verses)

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2014 at 5:00pm

Mindy, I shared Wonderful Quartet!  on Twitter! Great group. 

Ian, I missed your email about your visit to England and will go looking for it now. I like your "Bookworms Unite"; I am with you. 

Loren, your "20 of the Top Misplaced Hilarious Advertisements" is funny beyond belief. Who believes in Intelligent Design? 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 26, 2014 at 3:54pm

Oh, Loren!  I HOWLED!  Gotta share it with my coffee-loving friends (that's what they ALL say about that particular brand.)

(About 20 years ago, a medium-sized Chai was $3.50.  Haven't been in one of those stores since then.  I'll make my own tea...any flavor.)

Comment by Loren Miller on March 26, 2014 at 3:17pm

A little something worth a good a good giggle here from the wonderful world of advertising.  Let's have a bit of a sample, shall we?

Comment by Plinius on March 26, 2014 at 5:43am

Difficult for you to manage your mums, Ian, it must be extra hard because it's close family.

Comment by Grinning Cat on March 25, 2014 at 10:20pm

Ian, thanks for the laugh! I so completely resemble that "bookworms" poster.

And I'm sorry to hear about your Mums' troubles.


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