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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 30, 2013 at 12:15pm

Well, I didn't want it to come to this, but the above sign is going to be placed on my front door today.  Three days in a row, this past Friday, Saturday and Sunday, I was interrupted in my home by a knocking at the door and visited by religious solicitors.  Friday was the Jehovah Witnesses and Saturday and Sunday were ladies from a Spanish bible church.  Ugh!!!  So obnoxious. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on April 30, 2013 at 10:54am

One of my drugs of choice:

Comment by Steph S. on April 30, 2013 at 10:19am

Comment by Plinius on April 30, 2013 at 9:25am

I saw The Bear - it says in the credits NO animals were harmed, and as far as I know Annaud is keen on integrity. 

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 30, 2013 at 3:46am

Joan, thanks for the bird info.

Damn, another male top and female bottom scene.

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 30, 2013 at 2:49am

Joan, I'm committed to questioning authority, in this case Daniel Dennetts'  “There’s simply no polite way to tell people they’ve dedicated their lives to an illusion.”

He knows no polite way and is denying responsibility for his lack of knowledge.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 2:36am

The Well of Lonliness is one of the most depressing books I've ever read...try ANYTHING by Rita Mae Brown.  Rita WILL is her autobiography.

Venus Envy is a hilarious and touching novel about a woman in her 30s who has been told she has incurable cancer, so she writes letters to family and friends, telling them exactly what she thinks of them, AND that she's gay.  Then the doctor discovers her records have been mixed up with another patient's, and that she only is suffering from extreme stress and bronchitis.  The rest of the book is the aftermath.

Six of One, Loose Lips, and Bingo are also funny, touching, and semi- autobiographical about a small town that straddles the Mason Dixon Line, and begins with her own mother's 5th or 6th birthday.  Bingo is fairly close to the present...late 1980s, IIRC.

The mystery series she's co-written with her cat, Sneaky Pie start out pretty good, but the later books kind of got on my left nerve.  Too much churchy stuff, or something. Maybe it's because the original Sneaky Pie died about 10 years ago, and she's now collaborating with Sneaky Pie II.  But you will learn a lot about small-town Virginia, and Virginia attitudes in general. No gay characters that I can recall, but the animals have dialogue that the humans can't understand, and that is fun.

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 30, 2013 at 1:03am

Re "I don't know good authors regarding LGBT":

If you include lesbian fiction, check out Radclyffe Hall's Well of Loneliness.

Published ~1930.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 30, 2013 at 1:01am

Tom, 

male sparrow has black throat and mask

http://www.allaboutbirds.org/guide/house_sparrow/id

female has brown throat and breast.

http://www.allaboutbirds.org/guide/house_sparrow/id

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 30, 2013 at 12:59am

For folks who like to look at space pix: check out NASA's daily pic at

http://apod.nasa.gov/apod/

I open Firefox and get a new pic every day.

The Archive at the bottom of the page might still have links to pix back to 1995.

 

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