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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 24, 2013 at 11:04pm

Hi, all. I'm a new fan of shironeko cat.

Comment by Megan S. M. on April 24, 2013 at 6:28pm

Heh.. maybe I am still a bit of a literalist, need to break that...

Personally I love coffee, but only if it's good quality stuff... or has a ton of milk and chocolate in it :3

Comment by Megan S. M. on April 24, 2013 at 6:22pm

Joan, do you want a long or a short answer?

The short: The questions came from within me as a young teen about the contradictions/illogicality of the teaching of the LDS church.

I'd be happy to elaborate, but it would be kinda long and idk if the comment wall is the best place to put it.

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 24, 2013 at 5:48pm

Okay, Grinning Cat isn't a literalist!!!

About coffee's taste. When I went into the Navy the old salts (Navy lifers) told me that if I don't drink coffee I couldn't go on coffee breaks. To make coffee, they threw several handfuls of coffee grounds into about ten gallons of water and put the business end of a steam hose into the pail until the concoction boiled. New and naive, I learned to drink coffee but only with four spoonfuls of sugar.

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 24, 2013 at 5:31pm

Free coffee for a dollar, and the explanations below?

We have a few literalists here. (Former biblical literalists????)

"Free Coffee for a Dollar" metaphorically criticizes the people in government who are giving libraries less taxpayer money--making those who use services pay.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 24, 2013 at 4:23pm

Felaine, I never drank coffee when I was mormon, but like you, I thought it smelled good.  I still like the smell, but the taste is disgustingly bitter.

Also, I never was impressed by the Seagull "miracle", even as a believer.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 24, 2013 at 4:08pm

I'm a little late getting into this discussion..."stuff" is still distracting me.

When I was in high school, some of the girls I hung out with were Mormons, and they talked a lot about not being allowed to drink coffee (most of us didn't like it anyway), tea, Coke, Pepsi, none of those "brown" drinks.  BUT what most people didn't know back then was that almost all soft drinks have caffeine in them.  Even today,, when all ingredients have to be listed, the only bubbly drinks I know of that aren't caffeinated are 7-UP and Canada Dry ginger ale....AND Champagne.  Hee-hee-heee!

I don't know if hot chocolate was on the forbidden list.  That was a lonnnng time ago.

I've never been interested in Mormonism, but I never did learn to like coffee.  It smells good when it's brewing, but it tastes like dirt to me.

When we played the Utah state Fair in Salt Lake, a bunch of us took the tour of Temple Square, and I had a difficult time not laughing out loud when the guide told us about the "miracle" of the seagulls. Even right out of high school, I knew that the Lake was a remnant of a prehistorical inland sea, and there had always been seagulls in the area.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 24, 2013 at 3:31pm

Ian Mason, that is such good news and I did not know of their efforts. I would far prefer a collaborative project rather than a competitive one. I could never understand school sports competition because it very quickly turned into "rich school vs poverty school". It just didn't make any sense to me then, or now. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 24, 2013 at 3:28pm

Megan S. McGary, What were the factors that made you question the beliefs of Mormonism? Was it questions coming from within you? or challenges from outsiders? Can you describe what age developmental stage you were at when you began to question? 

Comment by Ian Mason on April 24, 2013 at 2:55pm

Joan, do you know of the "West-Eastern Divan orchestra" led by Daniel Barenboim. It's based in Spain but includes Muslim, Jewish and Christian members and was the star of last years Prom season, playing all of Beethoven's 9 symphonies. I have their CD set of the same pieces and the performances are top-notch. This is, of course, music at the flagship, elite level but I've heard of others at a more every-day pitch.  We can only hope for a change in atittudes via culture. I think there are also sports clubs that try to cross the divide and this is also a positive move.

 

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