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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat yesterday. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Idaho Spud on April 14, 2013 at 7:47am

Tony, the Smurf-eating baby is funny to me also.

Comment by Tony Carroll on April 14, 2013 at 5:54am

Okay, this is just cute and silly, and made me smile real big.

Wonder how they taste? lol :)

Comment by Plinius on April 14, 2013 at 1:30am

" the arias of rot that rise at empire's end"

That is beautiful, Joan!

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 14, 2013 at 12:38am
Here is a new, to me, version of the 5-step problem solving process.
The Secular Life Coach: Critical thinking:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=488603757867890&set=a.4...
Comment by sk8eycat on April 13, 2013 at 9:04pm

Thanks, Chris, that sounds encouraging.  I've been noticing that Jerry is eating more often, but he eats less than usual each session.

Years ago I had a vet who makes house calls come euthanize a sweet old orange fellow who was in kidney failure.  It cost 10 times the price of an office visit, but it was worth it.  We sat on the floor in a patch of sunlight; in was very peaceful. She first made a clay pawprint plaque for us to keep, lit a candle, and read a short poem (I was VERY glad she didn't read the "Rainbow Bridge" thing!), and gave Lyle the drugs.  He was so weak that the first shot, the anaesthetic, probably stopped his heart.

I wish I could afford to do something like that for Jerry, but it's just not possible.  I was still working full-time when we had Lyle's "funeral."  However, The Animal Hospital I took him to is always very calming...no hysterical dogs in the waiting room, and stuff like that.  (There is a cat specialist closer to us, but I don't like him. Very brusque "bedside manner.")

I'll stick with Media City and "Doc Liz."

And no matter what happens, I'll still have my little Pumpkin.  He's 14 years old, and still roars around the house like a kitten.  Or sits on my knees and purrs when I'm trying to type. 

 

Comment by Steph S. on April 13, 2013 at 8:37pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 13, 2013 at 5:01pm
Sorry, that should read Grinning Cat!
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 13, 2013 at 5:00pm
Grinning Car, I like this "awesome" website you recommend. http://www.logicalfallacies.info/
I know I am not dumb, but frankly, a lot of the fallacy names make no sense to me. Guess I just don't have the lawyer's mind. People often state, "that is an XXX fallacy" and I don't get it. Why is it a fallacy? I welcome any instructions. In the meantime, I am going to look at this list and see if it is any clearer than the other lists I have read. Thanks G. Cat!
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 13, 2013 at 4:42pm

I posted a long piece that is rather somber, as the author often is, that you may be interested in reading at Politics, Economics, and Religion. Here is a paragraph from it. 

"When engaged in discourse with belligerently ignorant teabagger types and self-impressed democratic partisans, remember this: Their convictions and attendant acts are ushering the present order to its demise. They are part of the soul's song i.e., the arias of rot that rise at empire's end."

Phil Rockstroh

Comment by Plinius on April 13, 2013 at 2:53pm

Thanks Sk8eycat, I wasn't fully awake when I wrote the question. Then I remembered just when the vet told me that Prednizone boosts cancer: when my own red and white Plinius had a lump. On Prednizone he had six weeks more of the best sort of life we could give him, and when the pain came through we had him put to sleep.  I do hope Hairy Jerry will have an easy end too.

 

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