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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller on Thursday. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

The Fake Christian Busybody Show (Andrew Bradley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Apr 9. 1 Reply

It seems as though there was a Gay Pride parade in some town somewhere and a Christian commentator, herein known as The Activist Mommy, apparently got her panties so in a bunch about it that she had to fire up her video camera and record a…Continue

Tags: gay, pride, The Activist Mommy, Andrew Bradley, America's Best Christian

America Held Hostage: Day 436 (MisterDeity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Apr 9. 1 Reply

Now that Sinclair Broadcasting has stated their position regarding fake news and its threat to our democracy, Mister Deity's Brian Dalton has decided to throw his $0.02 worth in as well ... though I don't quite think his presentation was really what…Continue

Tags: fake news, Deity, Mister, Broadcasting, Sinclair

Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 3. 3 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

how dogma pollutes discourse (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 3. 0 Replies

"The Lord is our God; the Lord is One." "I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life; no one comes to the Father, but by Me." "There is no god but Allah, and Mohamed is his prophet." Assertions, taught as fact, but without any form of corroborative…Continue

Tags: dogma, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Ian Mason on January 29, 2014 at 10:05pm

As regards loss: it's not what you say but how much and how well you listen. It's almost always a good thing to ask "what happened"? Bereaved parents have a real need for patient listeners who "just" listen and don't try to solve problems or find a deeper meaning.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 29, 2014 at 8:39pm

What Joan said Ian.  Nice.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 29, 2014 at 8:29pm

Ian, a beautiful and brainy daughter. You must be very proud!

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 29, 2014 at 8:28pm

I still have a hard time knowing how to respond to someone's loss, even at my age.  My next door neighbor died last year.  Her husband the year before.  Her son came over to tell me and I just didn't know what to say to him, mainly because I don't know him that well.

A coincidental occurrence happened today as I was getting my blood drawn for a LAB report, the woman drawing it said "You look familiar."  I couldn't place her face and asked if she knew my dad.  She said no.

After a couple of minutes she said "don't you live next to where my parents used to live?  I live around the corner.  Then I knew who she was.  I didn't recognize her because I've never talked with her before.  I've talked to her husband and son and most of the rest of their relatives that live in this area. 

Anyway, we talked about her mother & father as well as mine.

And, she did a good job of drawing blood.  The last time I had a lab, the young guy lost the vein and had a lot of trouble finding it again.  Had a big bruise for a week.  Never going to that place again.

I had a good discussion with my new doctor today that may be an agnostic.  I plan on feeling him out to see what his religious beliefs are (or lack thereof).  But so far I like him!

Comment by Ian Mason on January 29, 2014 at 3:25pm

My daughter, having finished university as "Kandidat Magister" (Advanced Degree/MA) with the next-highest grade. A proud Dad, me.https://plus.google.com/photos/117651753549220715564/albums/5974354...

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 29, 2014 at 2:42pm

Mindy, I was at the lab yesterday for another blood draw and it was standing room only. I asked the technition if the work load has changed recently. He said "Big time". Whatever is causing the overloads is real and has an explanation. 

Sorry about your son's friend's loss. Tough for young people to deal with death issues, especially babies and children. The grief must be very deep for the parents. I like you husband's response. 

Comment by Ian Mason on January 28, 2014 at 10:41am

It could have been different.

Comment by Grinning Cat on January 27, 2014 at 11:46pm

"Smarty Pants Phones" -- heh!

And that "Oatmeal" on "doing religion wrong" is good! "...constantly trying to convince others to believe the same thing? / This is why I'm a fan of Buddhists and Jews. There's no such thing as a door-to-door Jew." [There are Jews by choice, but they sought it themselves.]

and "Are you so dangerously extremist that even a silly web cartoonist can't draw a picture of your prophet without fearing for his life?  (There's no drawing here.)"

Two Cult Survivor on here wrote about comparing atheism to a hairstyle: "It's not. But it is. But it's not." (Which is what inspired my graphic.) If we accept freedom of religion, then not following any religion deserves equal respect and noncoercion.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 27, 2014 at 9:11pm
Comment by sk8eycat on January 27, 2014 at 8:29pm

I was thinking about getting the least expensive phone available, no contract, etc., but I gave up driving, instead.  If I were still driving, I would need a phone for emergencies, to call the auto club, etc.  But I noticed a long time ago that when we have a little (or not so little) earthquake here, the electricity usually goes off for a while, but not the land-line phone, so I'm keeping that.

Ew...and I just received a new modem from AT&T that I have to install myself.  It's sort of like all the TV services switching to HD. AT&T is doing something like that tomorrow, and the old modem won't work anymore.  I can't wait to pull this away from the wall and start messing with all the effing wires.  [sarcasm off/]

 

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