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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 19, 2016 at 9:05am
Comment by Plinius on October 19, 2016 at 9:03am

"The black president will be the last one." the woman who told me this had it from an old Bulgarian prophecy. I don't believe prophecies, but the sentence runs in my head, probably because there's nothing good to be expected.

I know Sweeny Todd, a Victorian penny dreadful, but were there rhymes in it?

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 19, 2016 at 7:24am

You're right, Randall. The debate will pretty much be a tale full of sound and fury signifying nothing. But I can't resist watching. It's sort of like being hypnotized by a cobra.

Good one, Carl. Remember Sweeny Todd?

Attend the tale of Donald's hair

He looks as though he's had a scare

You'd rather shave your head all bare

Or cover it up with your underwear

Than have Trump's hair.

Comment by Randall Smith on October 19, 2016 at 7:09am

So happy to read about how well you're doing, Carl! After all you've gone through, you can relax and enjoy living the good life. 

I'm not watching any part of the debate tonight. I've totally tuned out everything political. It's all a grand gory spectacle--sorta like chariot racing (or NASCAR).

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 19, 2016 at 7:06am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 19, 2016 at 2:13am

I can't wait for this election to be over. With Trump in the mix the whole process has been depressing and surreal. And embarrassing.

With that in mind, it's nice to hear your stories about golfing, playing bass guitar, lazy shopping, etc. We all need to keep ourselves sane somehow. I spent last Saturday evening with my best friend watching a movie, eating pizza, and then just chatting about life. It's not only cathartic but we laugh a lot. I couldn't ask for a better friend.

The weather here has been quite warm and enjoyable. However, meteorologists have forecast a numbingly cold winter with lots of snow and snowstorms based on the history of La Nina this year. If that's the case, I'm glad I won't have to trek back and forth to the airport in the worst of weather and deal with all the delays. But it was always nice to get to southern California, Miami Beach, or Mexico during the winter. Miami Beach was always my place to get Argentine and Cuban food.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 18, 2016 at 2:17pm

Ian - you might enjoy my old college bud's blog post about the bass (including his tale of building his own electric guitar in jr. high).

Comment by Plinius on October 18, 2016 at 2:10pm

Sorry to hear that it's as bad in Denmark! Once the big money grabbers like bankers etc. get a grip on politics, you might as well stop voting, it all seems to be an empty gesture.

I'm glad you took up the bass, 'Louie Louie' sounds good! Success with the blisters!

Comment by Ian Mason on October 18, 2016 at 1:57pm

Health care in Denmark is also going downhill. The government(s) have insisted on treatment guarantees for certain problems (cancer, heart, diabetes) and that sucks the scarce resources from other areas. Local authorities, responsible for elderly and home care, cut, cut and cut. There's always money for the building of new, so-called super hospitals and for more consultents/middle management etc. though. Don't get me started!

I've never had any musical talent but on my last trip to England I tried my nephew's bass, connected to a computer program with instructions and managed to play The Who's 'My Generation' (minus solo) with 40% accuracy! As I've always thought that bassists were the coolest musicians, I was hooked. I've also now broken my first string and got my first blister but the show will go on.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 18, 2016 at 9:14am

I agree, Randall. I've often been tempted to sew a maple leaf onto my backpack when traveling.

Ian, I think it's admirable that you're taking up the bass. (My musical talents are pretty much limited to the listening end of things.)

 

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