I'm not a parent. I just wanted to throw out something positive from someone raised without religion. I figure you must be hearing opinions all the time on how your kids will grow up without morals or community or whatthefuckever.
My parents never sent me to church, sunday school, or bible camp. There were remnants of their Christian upbringings. We had a small nativity scene at Christmas and dead people were said to be in heaven. All real exposure to religion came from friends and classmates though.
I am 23, gainfully empoyed in a job I love, in a good and stable relationship. I have never smoked or done drugs, and rarely drink. I have always been academically successful and loved school. I am generally well liked. I have never had any problems with the law. I volunteer my time and money to help abused and homeless pets, and support womens and gay rights. I am happy, functional, and generally notfuckedup.