So my wife and I are almost completely closeted to our college friends about our poly and open relationship. We had briefly mentioned something to our roommate but either she didn't pick it up or glossed it over. I do want our relationship dynamic to be more open. But my wife had to ended up telling her best friend in order to let her know about "boy issues". I am glad she did and wouldn't mind expanding the small circle but I don't know really how to, or if it's even their business and if they even need to know. I know I don't want a big "hey everyone we see other people".
Was just a thought and question, how can I come out without aienating my friends?