I like what The Nerd says here - we shouldn't tell others how to live their lives.
My piece of enlightenment for the day-
Breaking promises is the main cause of suffering in human relationships. If there was one commandment I would make for humanity it is:
KEEP THE PROMISES YOU MAKE
Contraindication= promises made under duress don't count!
I agree with Will. The central problem isn't making an unorthodox or "unnatural" choice, but in failing to honor the promises that one has made in making his/her choice.