Valentine Day is closer. My situation is that my wives stay in separate homes and I have to buy everything double. I was buying the other day two pairs of heart shaped plates and two pairs of heart shaped bowls and everything else two times. The guy behind me noticed that and made some positive comment (something like "I'll impress my partner"). I was not sure what he was thinking but I was hoping he doesn't think I am cheating (because I am not). It was a strange sensation to have the door to my closet a little bit open. I wish I could live my life openly. Anyway, how do you deal with Valentine's Day?
I often give candy to both of my partners.
You shouldnt worry about what strangers think. It might even be fun to find a way to mess with their heads a little bit.