Recovering from Religion


Recovering from Religion

Unless you were raised by atheist parents, you probably had some recovering to do when you left religion. The purpose of RR is to provide a landing place for people when they jump from religion. With local support groups throughout the US, Canada, UK, and Australia, and real-time resources accessible to everyone, RR is where to turn when faith has lost its luster.

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Religious Trauma Syndrome (RTS)

Started by Steph S. Jun 8, 2015. 0 Replies

This is a good website for help in recovering from religion of Religious Trauma Syndrome:• Cognitive: Confusion, poor critical thinking ability, negative beliefs about…Continue

In what way are you still recovering from being brought up religious?

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Richard C Brown Aug 30, 2014. 57 Replies

I was brought up in a fundamentalist family.Anyone still dealing with any issues from religion?Do you fear the result of coming out Atheist to your family?Any thoughts are welcome.Continue

Catholic Family / Atheist Wedding - HELP

Started by Megan. Last reply by tom sarbeck May 31, 2014. 4 Replies

Any one else out there still recovering from Catholic guilt??I come from an extremely Catholic family/upbringing. In 6 days I will be the first person in my entire extended family not to marry a Catholic in a Catholic Church.My biggest source of…Continue

Anyone still deal with anything like this?

Started by Starland Seay. Last reply by Matt Skaggs Aug 26, 2013. 27 Replies

One thing I have noticed is a tendency to "doubt" my new path in life. I still want to reach for the Bible sometimes. I still hesitate somewhat when someone mentions Pascal's "Wager"...LOL! Even though I know that science teaches this and that no…Continue

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Comment by Tabitha McCoy on December 14, 2012 at 10:48pm

@ Patricia and Kalliope Thanks :) Change and internal transformation do take time, though, so the best I can do is read everything I can get my hands on and think outside the box--get out of my comfort zone and always question everything. I'm just now starting to understand that.

@James I'll have to look into those novels...

Comment by James M. Martin on December 14, 2012 at 9:20pm

T Andrew, Freud wrote to debunk religious as mass delusion, and Jung wrote to claim that the UFO phenomenon was just as you say, a modern example of mass delusion.  One of my favorite writers on these things was the late Philip K. Dick, whose Valis Trilogy examined religion from different points of view.  One of the novels re-visited the disappearance, in the Holy Land, of the once-revered Episcopal bishop, Pike.  But the novel, VALIS, itself, is the shining masterpiece and one of the finest examples of imaginative fiction one could want.

Comment by Tabitha McCoy on December 14, 2012 at 3:23pm

And another thing...I hve this tendancy to cling to childish, almost delusional way of thinking. It's hard to let go of the belief in a soul, the whole god do I let it all go??

Comment by Tabitha McCoy on December 14, 2012 at 9:29am

@ Andrew Yeah! I think they just wnted to do something outside the norm of the regular religion, wanted to spice up a new religion to make themselves feel special. It really is quite ridiculous, and very sad. But hey, I've been there.

@Patricia Excellent! I will definitely look into those :) I've read a lot by Richard Dawkins, but I also hear he's kind of an arrogant jerk...I dunno. But thank you!!

@James Yes, it is least WE don't live in those kind of dark ages anymore. I'm glad we have the freedom to think for ourselves.

@Kara Welcome! I understand how you feel, and I know exactly where you are. I'm kinda in the same place right now. I hope you find some enlightening information here, as I already have :)

Comment by James M. Martin on December 13, 2012 at 10:19pm

I know about that, Tabitha, but the Church also confiscated the lands of "heretics."  We know that when Philip "le bel" of Spain began to feel threatened by the power and wealth of the Knights Templar, he contrived with the Pope to have them arrested and tried by the Inquisition. They were accused of worshiping the devil in the form of an hermaphroditic goat called Baphomet, a Byzantine plot contrived for purposes of a show trial.  Then the lands of the knights were divided up as spoils.  Sad, sad. 

Comment by T Andrew Klatt on December 13, 2012 at 10:10am

I appreciate Tabitha’s comments about Wicca, Gerald Gardiner and the “old religion.” I would add to this list Chares G. Leland’s Aradia or the Gospel of the Witches, a classic of amateur folklore collecting, that it is believed that Gardiner and other’s used in the creation of their “traditions.”

The Wicca, neo-pagan or neo-shamanistic movements just go to demonstrate (at least to my way of thinking) how we human beings go about creating religions. It is an interesting phenomenon to observe. The UFO/Alien abduction crowd is another perfect example of how humans seem to create false correlation out of unexplainable or misperceived events into religious or spiritual movements. 

Comment by Tabitha McCoy on December 13, 2012 at 9:10am

@Future Well, yeah it was like that. I grew up my whole life raised on the fact that there is a god. I've struggled since then, going back and forth saying, "Oh, there's no god--and it's fantastic! This universe came about naturally, and it's so beautiful!" Then going back to thinking, "Wait...what if there is a god? I'll burn in hell for what I've thought and done!" I have been raised my WHOLE LIFE around people who believe in god. Finally coming to the understanding that there really isn't a god or gods, it felt like there was a veil being lifted from over my eyes. I felt like I could see clearly, and life was beautiful, exactly the way it was. I felt angry for being lied to my whole life, too, but then I realized that my parents and grandparents believed for the very same reason I did--for fear of hell, and because they had been indoctrinated as a child.

@Patricia My mom would scream if she found out what I've been reading these past years. Then i moved in with my step mother--a very Christian woman--and she is much more lenient, and I can even have open conversation with her about my beliefs--or rather, my lack of.

@James People back in those days also used witchcraft accusations for political reasons--"My opponent is a witch!" and his opponent would be burned or hanged and that was that.

Comment by James M. Martin on December 11, 2012 at 11:06pm

And then, again, Tabitha, the Hebrews called them poisoners for the same reason that the Inquisition burned many "witches": they administered abortifacients.  Many of these had to be tinctures and such and might therefore be regarded as "poisonous" to the extent that they "killed babies." Narrow minded superstition was standard.

Comment by Future on December 11, 2012 at 10:06am

Then, I found atheism while browsing the web when i was 16


That's a very curious statement, Tabitha.  You make it sound like the lack of belief in god(s) is a concept that only arises when it is brought to one's attention from an outside source.  When I first heard the word "atheism", and found out what it meant, all it did for me was give a common name to what I already knew I was.  Believing in god(s) was just something that I could never honestly do, at any age.

Comment by Tabitha McCoy on December 11, 2012 at 9:26am

Hahaha! The Wiccans that say they have ancestors from the old days are full of it. Witches and pagans in the old days were wiped out, and then Gerald Gardner, a British civil servant, came over seas and basically reinvented the pagan religion of old and renamed it "Wicca". (There has been much dispute over where this word came from...some say it means "Witch" others say it means "wise"...I have no idea)

But yeah, long story short, Wicca was BASED on the "Old Religion". I don't know what percentage of it is actually really and truly connected to ancient religions. I'm pretty sure the Old Religion had a lot of animal and/or human sacrifice involved.

And I'm not sure about Hebrew witches...maybe they did, they just called them something else. Maybe they were classified as poisoners.


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