Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

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Pot Lube

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Genital Video Game Controllers

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The other side-women and sexual freedom.

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Sex Tips

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Ezekiel 23:20 – Bible Porn?

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What do you yell in bed?

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FREEOK 2013 - Emily Boyer: "Secular Facts on Sexual Acts"

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gender reveal parties

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Men have sex and women make love. Or do they?

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Clits 101

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On sexual objectification and subjectivication

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Does sex keep you younger?

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Music during sex

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Comment by Bobbi Cadence on May 8, 2013 at 7:44pm

Hi there! I am new to Atheistnexus, and I am not online much.

I am also on FB, Ravelry, and I have a wordpress-blog.
I do not consider myself a "weak" Atheist simply because I am NOT 100% Sure that God-Gods-Goddess Exist or not. I simply say I don't know, but I live my life according to the "natural laws" of this planet, NOT the bible written thousands of years ago when people "knew" the earth was flat.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 29, 2013 at 11:24pm

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on February 26, 2013 at 11:15pm

Bang With Friends: The Beginning Of A Sexual Revolution On Facebook?

You install the app, then the app lists your Facebook friends of the opposite sex. You click if you’d like to “bang” them, and no one ever knows . . . that is, unless one of those friends installed the app and elected to bang you, too.

“We wanted to keep it simple,” one of the creators tells Co.Design. “See your friends, choose your potential bangs, and then get notified privately via email when you have a match. Wham, bam, thank you new friend with benefits!”

With my wife’s permission, I took Bang With Friends for a spin. After installing the app, I was greeted by a Pinterest-y wall of potential hook-ups: An old co-worker. A friend from high school. A cousin. A minor. A dude. My wife. Lots of my friends’ wives. My mother-in-law, but, thank god, at least not my mom (apparently, there’s at least one filter at work here).

A few smarter filters would no doubt, make the app less inherently awkward (it’s hard to believe that family members should make the list). But then again, filters imply a certain level of judgement. And if Bang With Friends is anything, it’s a nonjudgmental corner of your social, digital life...

The author says it only lists your friends of the opposite sex, but "a dude" responded. How did that work?

Comment by Darrel Ray on October 26, 2012 at 8:39am

Dr. Dawkins' new documentary, Sex, Death and the Meaning of Life is now out and available on YouTube. It features my research and material from my book Sex and God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality. As usual, for Dawkins, it is well done and thought provoking. Two of the three episodes are now out. The third will be out next Tuesday.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on October 22, 2012 at 2:14pm

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on October 22, 2012 at 2:10pm

Happy Halloween, all!

Comment by tom sarbeck on October 4, 2012 at 12:13am

1.Are you saying there are only two effing trees in the effing forest: the tree you say is the wrong tree and the tree you're barking up?

2. The world ALWAYS goes downhill when it's not going uphill.

3. It starts going uphill when enough people look up the hill and see up there what they want.

Dutch Uncle.

Comment by TNT666 on October 3, 2012 at 3:02am

40 yrs of barking at a tree... and still we go downhill... if that's not the wrong tree I don't know what is!!!! ;P

Comment by tom sarbeck on October 3, 2012 at 2:43am

Metaphor, metaphor, all is metaphor.

Some politically active folk insist that others are barking up wrong trees when those others are barking up different trees.

Comment by TNT666 on October 2, 2012 at 11:23am

I have such a light switch but it says reserection... It's a bloody Jesus on a cross... Yes I have humour about some shit, but not the environment. I've been involved with the environmental movement too long and have been watching groups create NO change at all in the state of the planet, because of constantly barking up the wrong tree, such as light switching.


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