Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

This discussion forum is moderated. Unsophisticared trolls and judging other people will not be tolerated. If you would like to see a topic addressed, or have a question, add it to the comment wall, or message an admin.

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Pot Lube

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Genital Video Game Controllers

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The other side-women and sexual freedom.

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Sex Tips

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Ezekiel 23:20 – Bible Porn?

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FREEOK 2013 - Emily Boyer: "Secular Facts on Sexual Acts"

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gender reveal parties

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Men have sex and women make love. Or do they?

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Clits 101

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On sexual objectification and subjectivication

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Does sex keep you younger?

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Comment by Ja'net on October 3, 2009 at 12:25pm
Try as I can, I can't see anything but a lamp, & I know I have a dirty mind lol.
Comment by Jo Jerome on September 21, 2009 at 10:06pm
Aaron - that is awesome!
Comment by Blake Mitchell on August 31, 2009 at 1:36am
The first Meeting for the Mercer County Atheist group(in NJ) will be on Sept. 5 @ 12 pm @ the Princeton Market Fair.
Please click here for more info.
Comment by Abdallah Zane on August 7, 2009 at 7:10am
I hope to learn a lot about sexuality in this group.As an african sex is one of the subjects that are not discussed freely and most people suffer with unanswered questions for long.I hope to get a lot insight on this forbidden topic.
Comment by Blake Mitchell on August 4, 2009 at 4:00pm
are there any atheist in Princeton or Trenton?

I am trying to get a meet up going and right now we have 4 people including me. I want to get a few more people if possible.Head over to the New Jersey Atheists discussion forum and make a post.
Comment by Sheryl on August 2, 2009 at 8:49pm
Gay Marriage vs. Traditional Power, Authority
An interesting article about why Christians fear gay marriage.
Comment by Gecko, of Richie! on July 2, 2009 at 4:56pm
I agree with meabh, in that there needs to be a conversation between the two parties. If accommodation cannot be reached than the next step is analyzing the marriage.
I can not imagine keeping my wife from sexual enjoyment if I for some bizzar twist of fate stopped enjoying it. Of course I want her to enjoy it any way she wishes now, but that's just me.
Comment by Little Name Atheist on July 2, 2009 at 10:38am
Hmmm... maybe Realizer's question would be better posted as a discussion in the Secular Sexuality Discussion Forum, as I can see this going on for a bit.
Comment by Angie Jackson on July 2, 2009 at 10:27am
@Realizer - Well it's certainly disrespectful and has the potential to be tremendously hurtful also. Do the feelings of the wife matter to this fellow?
Comment by Little Name Atheist on July 2, 2009 at 1:57am
Realizer: Is it permissible to look around and try to find a lady about the same age in the same situation? Is it sinful, is it illegal, is it immoral, actually is it socially acceptable?

How does his wife feel? If they made a monogamous commitment to each other, then he should probably discuss this with her before going outside the marriage for sex. If she disagrees, then he may have to reconsider his desire for another human being to have sex with, or his marriage. If she agrees, I don't see any issue with it, as long as he is upfront about his situation with any future lovers.

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