Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

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(book) Sex at Dawn

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Circumcision doesn't reduce penis sensation

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What do you yell in bed?

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Genital Video Game Controllers

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The other side-women and sexual freedom.

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Sex Tips

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Ezekiel 23:20 – Bible Porn?

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Comment by TNT666 on October 2, 2012 at 7:20am

This is a very "David Suzuki" view of environmentalism. Guilt tripping the citizenry, while fully knowing that even if 100% of humanity "turned off the light" it would change almost nothing the the global annual energy consumption. Any environmental action which focuses on little teensy drops in the bucket instead of the grand scheme of things, ie corporate energy consumption, is bound for environmental failure. Of course, little drops in the bucket does seem to make people feel really good about themselves. But feeling good about ourselves and creating change that has an environmental impact are two entirely different things. Now you choose :)

Comment by tom sarbeck on October 2, 2012 at 1:28am

I like the pic!!!

If no one is selling them, I will make several and put them in communal spaces.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 30, 2012 at 5:53pm

Comment by Joseph P on September 25, 2012 at 10:11pm

They seem pretty reliable to me.  ^.^

Comment by Paula T. on September 25, 2012 at 10:04pm

From my understanding, vaginal orgasms are much less common.  It is good to differentiate the two.

Comment by TNT666 on September 25, 2012 at 9:56pm

We should distinguish here clit and vaginal orgasms as they generally experience different timing. IME clitoral orgasms anywhere from 15-60 min. Vaginal orgasms from 5min to not at all. But vaginal orgasms are less reliable.

Comment by Paula T. on September 25, 2012 at 9:21pm

No, no, boyfriend can be ready to go in 15 minutes.  I need hours to be ready to reach orgasm.  I hate to get TOO personal here, but it's very rarely a quickie for us.  We are also older than you, Joseph, and that can make a difference in the amount of time it takes to reach orgasm.  I hope I followed your comment correctly.

Comment by Joseph P on September 25, 2012 at 9:03pm


15 minutes?  As in, you have an orgasm, and then you need to have a 15 minute break before you're ready to give it another go?

Jeeze, that would be frustrating as hell, for me.  15 minutes in, I'm still usually coming around to my first orgasm, and my partner has generally had 4 or 5.  Not sure I could ever reach orgasm, under those kinds of constraints.

Comment by Paula T. on September 25, 2012 at 8:55pm

And that is regarding being able to reach orgasm.  I don't need to have an orgasm every time we are intimate, but I still enjoy it immensely.  

Comment by Paula T. on September 25, 2012 at 8:54pm

Sorry, I should have made my statement more clear.  I think men are lucky in that they have a shorter refractory period.  My boyfriend can be ready to go again after 15 minutes or so.  NO WAY can I do the same.


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