Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

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Comment by Joseph P on November 9, 2011 at 8:17am

Eh, I'm good on two out of three of those, in relation to my body.  No worries.

Comment by Paula T. on November 8, 2011 at 9:07pm

The Nerd, I wonder how many adults were not taking their own advice, but still tried to control something natural and normal.  More hypocrites, but that's not surprise.  Some wild (and sad) stuff there!

Comment by TNT666 on November 8, 2011 at 8:51pm

Comment by TNT666 on November 8, 2011 at 12:43am
Nope, I don't buy it for an instant, the crying child eventually finds comfort in mother's arms. Any psychotic anger/distrust I would think would get directed, if not at other males, then at all humans, not at the individual which actively provides most of the active loving, following after the male who caused the pain in the first place. If you really wanted to test your hypothesis, you'd have find studies which study the prevalence of misogyny among various groups of males, of which intact and cut. I doubt you'd find any correlation, but go ahead.
Comment by tom sarbeck on November 8, 2011 at 12:25am

What led you to infer the gender of the person who did the cutting?

"Is it possible, that since for most men our mothers are our first caregivers AFTER WE ARE BROUGHT HOME FROM WHERE THE CUTTING TOOK PLACE, that we associate the pain of cutting with our mothers and misogyny results?

Comment by TNT666 on November 8, 2011 at 12:16am

Since all but a very small percentage of circumcisions were performed by females, I don't see why any misogyny would be justifiable...

I met a guy on a personals this week, my age, from the USA, who'd never, ever, met any intact male, or heard of any locally, I was dumbfounded. I pleaded with him to never to that to any potential son of his. He asked what was different in bed... I gladly volunteered :)

Comment by tom sarbeck on November 7, 2011 at 11:59pm

When I started thinking about circumcision and its effects, I came to see that its purpose is:

1. to persuade boys to trust no one, or

2. to make unnecessary pulling the foreskin back before peeing and thereby reducing the chances that boys would discover masturbation.

Though not Jewish, my mom's doctor was and I was born in a Jewish hospital. They cut me and years later my mom told me that when she brought me home I trusted no one. Why was I not surprised?

Is it possible, that since for most men our mothers are our first caregivers, that we associate the pain of cutting with our mothers and misogyny results?

Any other opinions?


Comment by Jim Mo. on October 27, 2011 at 10:48am

Porn Is Ruining The Sex Lives Of An Entire Generation

Brain science? No distinction between vividly imagined and actual physical experience? Can overexposure make sex boring? Good for population control? Where is the simple answer?

Comment by TNT666 on October 24, 2011 at 11:57am

@JP, which is exactly why I stated that before we can be completely open about youths' sexuality, in order to prevent bad situations, parents need to step up to the plate and better prepare their progeny for all of life's adventures. Our mental states are artificial but our hormones are not. Our hormonal sexual lust has evolved over millions of years and to attempt to deny it for the sake of prolonged childhood is simply not healthy for humans. It leads to psychological traumas.

And for the sake of this argument, the few GOPs I've met in my life didn't know left from right in biology.

It is not only on the topic of sexuality, it happens in many areas of discussion about "modern humans", so many people think we can just turn off evolution with the snap of a finger in order to accommodate the whims of our 'modern' civilisation. Biologically, humans ARE as we were 10s of 1000s of years ago.

Comment by TNT666 on October 24, 2011 at 11:48am

I thought it was Richard Knight's wall?

Anyway, the articles were not primarily about pedophilia but about the sexual attractions and instincts of boys (whatever age groups 'boys' mean).


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