Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

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Comment by dr kellie on December 6, 2011 at 5:51pm

@TNT.  That is very true, but I wouldn't go very often if I had never been sexually active.  I actually asked an ex (a gyno)  of mine about this and she said everyone should still get the full work-up every year, but I kind of knew she would say that.

Comment by TNT666 on December 6, 2011 at 4:23pm

@Susan. Pap smears are important even if someone has not had sex. Cervical cancer is not only for non sexually active people. There is no such thing as medical virginity.

Comment by Brother Eduardo on December 6, 2011 at 3:40pm

I've always thought of virginity as a malady to be soon as one is "old enough" AND has the desire to be free of it. The notion of glorifying virginity seems absurd and mostly likely evidence of severe religious conditioning.

Comment by Joseph P on December 6, 2011 at 2:35pm

Steam is warm.  :-p

I can see what you mean with the mental image turning to some sort of twisted vore fantasy though, with 'heated hymen'.  Ick.

Comment by dr kellie on December 6, 2011 at 2:32pm

Yes.  It gives me a mental picture of a small flap of tissue on a fork.  And it's steaming, Joseph.  It's steaming.

Comment by Joseph P on December 6, 2011 at 2:07pm

Heh.  Just the hymen that's an issue, huh?

Comment by dr kellie on December 6, 2011 at 1:46pm

Joseph P, a vaginal steam bath would be awesome.  Heated vagina sounds just fine.

Comment by Joseph P on December 6, 2011 at 1:40pm
Comment by dr kellie on December 6, 2011 at 1:35pm

@Susan, my disdain for the term has to do with the concept of purity that goes along with it.  I have no problem with people who don't want to have sex.  I just get ruffled when girls are made to feel that they have lower worth, and, to me, that term has a lot to do with it.


@Nerd, I came across that article when TNT was having the heated hymen discussion.  Heated hymen.  That sounds kind of gross.  Anyway, great article. 

Comment by Susan Stanko on December 6, 2011 at 12:38pm

Virginity is a useful designation for medical purposes.  I really don't need to get a Pap because i am a virgin.  I had to have a vaginal ultrasound and discovered that they do not do a probe on virgins unless absolutely needed. 


Not everyone wants to have sex, so I fail to see how you can make virginity obsulete.


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