Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

This discussion forum is moderated. Unsophisticared trolls and judging other people will not be tolerated. If you would like to see a topic addressed, or have a question, add it to the comment wall, or message an admin.

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Ezekiel 23:20 – Bible Porn?

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FREEOK 2013 - Emily Boyer: "Secular Facts on Sexual Acts"

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gender reveal parties

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Men have sex and women make love. Or do they?

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Clits 101

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Does sex keep you younger?

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Music during sex

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How flirty is too flirty for a married person?

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Sexual Harassment and Assault at Hooters

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Comment by TNT666 on September 12, 2011 at 2:09am

10 sexiest male atheists... over half I agree with... which is pretty good in my book :)


Comment by TNT666 on August 31, 2011 at 6:18pm

Well, from a promiscuous female perspective... I've noticed two things: firstly-having watched lots of Caucasian porn (generally cut) and African-American porn (generally intact) I do notice a difference of "roughness" in the act of copulation and in the general handling of the woman, secondly, IME I have noticed a similar trend. Is it life imitating porn? I don't think so. I had only ever known cut men in my life until my 30s, generational thing, but being with intact men has changed a lot about my sex life.


It's too late to effectively change the conditions for cut men, but we can insure that men in the future need not suffer that. It's unfortunate San Franciscans did not win the right to ban circumcision, that would have been a huge step forward away from religion meddling with health. But that was just the first try, an ice breaker.

Comment by tom sarbeck on August 31, 2011 at 5:49pm

Not hostile. I like the idea of people enjoying mind-blowing orgasms in whatever consensual, safe, and non-criminal ways they can. In my post-retirement work for more than a year as a sex educator, I spoke by phone with people about ways to have them. I also dealt with the issue of rough sex, which some grown men feared was a result of their masturbating too often when they were young.

In my work, which I often described as a wonderful remedy for the consequences in my life of twelve years in Catholic schools, when the subject was the effect on orgasms of not cutting or cutting penile flesh, I did not change the subject to orgasms resulting from stimulating other parts of the body. I especially did not tell callers that what they'd said did not hold. Your bad.

I answered the way I did because doing so took only moments, and because A/N made it possible.

BTW, the training for the work required several times the number of classroom hours in human sexuality that medical students get. Local colleges gave under-graduate credit for the training and work; and working registered nurses could get continuing ed credits for it.

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Comment by Sean Murphy on August 31, 2011 at 1:02pm
Sarbeck may have been attempting a joke based on The Nerd's comment of being "cut" in combination with the orgasms from a goose feather applied to his anus. I know there have been plenty of times I have made jokes based on connections that felt intuitive and obvious, only to have everyone else stare at me blankly because nobody else made the same connections...
Comment by dr kellie on August 31, 2011 at 10:00am

I don't understand either part of Sarbeck's response to the goose feather post.  Anal flesh?  Usual place?  The whole thing seems hostile and I can't figure out why it would be.

Comment by tom sarbeck on August 31, 2011 at 12:56am
Hey, Nerd, when did circumcisers start taking anal flesh? Does a goose feather applied to the usual place do it for you?
Comment by Garaidh Mac an tSaoir on August 14, 2011 at 5:05pm
DISCOVERY CHANNEL’S, Curiosity, “promises a television experience unlike any other”. Episode 1 premiered on August 7th, with Stephen Hawking and “Did God Create the Universe”. Episode 3, “Why is Sex Fun”, hosted by Maggie Gyllenhaal, airs on August 21st.
Comment by AgeOfAtheists14 on August 11, 2011 at 8:44am
Comment by Garaidh Mac an tSaoir on August 7, 2011 at 3:05pm
Marty Klein, Ph.D., has a newsletter, "Sexual Intelligence", which might be of interest to members of this group:

To subscribe to Sexual Intelligence;
For back issues of Sexual Intelligence, see
Comment by Earther on July 12, 2011 at 11:08pm
Is there any youtube projects on  this subject?

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