Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

This discussion forum is moderated. Unsophisticared trolls and judging other people will not be tolerated. If you would like to see a topic addressed, or have a question, add it to the comment wall, or message an admin.

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(book) Sex at Dawn

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Circumcision doesn't reduce penis sensation

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What do you yell in bed?

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Why is this funny?

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Pot Lube

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Genital Video Game Controllers

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The other side-women and sexual freedom.

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Sex Tips

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Ezekiel 23:20 – Bible Porn?

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Comment by Kelvin Hilerio on January 21, 2011 at 6:07pm
Oh wow that sounds unfortunate for them, i would not want to be allergic to my own semen, i hope there is a cure or at least something for allergy relief.
Comment by Joseph P on January 18, 2011 at 1:39am
Hmm, need someone to help me take my one fantasy out for a spin ...
Comment by TNT666 on January 18, 2011 at 1:04am
Exactly Joseph :)
Comment by Christopher Baughman on January 17, 2011 at 11:29pm
It can still be a kink / fetish though. ;)
Comment by Joseph P on January 17, 2011 at 11:28pm
Hmm.  I'd have to read it again.  I don't remember it at all.  I consider a sexual fantasy to be something that you're not already getting or have gotten on a regular basis.  Once you have a partner who enjoys the same sort of thing and participates in your fantasy periodically, it stops becoming a fantasy and starts being something that you do.
Comment by TNT666 on January 17, 2011 at 11:07pm

middle of the night hey! :P


As I said, it's his definition of fantasy I had issues with, it was just such xtian definition! It smelt like a definition by a religious prude... :(  I can't be bothered to return to the bloody thing and find it, I just remember rolling my eyes upon reading it.

Comment by Joseph P on January 17, 2011 at 10:00pm

How so?  I'm not following you.  How does asking if you've fulfilled any of your fantasies have anything to do with faith?


Admittedly, I don't remember a lot of the details of what each section was like.  I did it in the middle of the night.

Comment by TNT666 on January 17, 2011 at 9:47pm
The definition of fantasy was pretty woo woo too, totally faith based!
Comment by Joseph P on January 17, 2011 at 9:43pm

Same here, although 'moderate' is relative.  My parents dragged us to church every single week, but it didn't affect our home life much.  It was constant, but not fundamentalist or anything.


For the second half, I interpreted 'leaving the faith' as when I was finally able to chuck the whole thing, which was either 14 or 18, depending upon how you look at it.  Either way, there was zero change, before and after.


I bet I helped make the fetish section a little bit more weird, too.

Comment by Justin Bonaparte on January 17, 2011 at 7:28am
I stopped midway through the survey, as like some below, most of the questions weren't relevant to me, as even though I grew up in a moderately Christian household, I was never a believer.

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