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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Saturday. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 26, 2016 at 1:04am

OMG Carl - the real estate offering reminds me of the Captain Cook Hotel in Anchorage. It's another disturbingly 70s blast from the past.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 25, 2016 at 11:35pm

Carl, you say the nicest things and give such beautiful inspiration. I like your style! The photo fits my image of Ruth; a cozy room with a fire and hot tea. 

I hope, Ruth, that you get totally well, soon. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 25, 2016 at 11:01pm

Ruth.  One thing after another!!  Sorry these many issues keep piling up on you.  Very unfair.  Seems you can't get a break to fully recover without something else popping up.  I'm thinking about you and I hope you can be satisfactorily treated.

Relax and get better soon.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 25, 2016 at 10:59pm

Ruth, it is not at all easy to get older. Each year something new springs up and it takes concentration and determination to be a participant observer to each new episode. 

Your toe infection is an example of what I mean. Who would have thought you would lose a toenail, get a fungal skin infection, in addition to the heart and G.I. track problems, and I think some other maladies you have endured since turning 71 added to old ailments? One would think the old problems would get solved before new ones crop up. No way!  They accumulate!

Exponentially!

Pause a moment, take inventory, Say, "So, this is what 71 (or 72, 73, 74) feels like?" Then look for those one or two things for which you are grateful and claim them as your focus. 

I figure we have a choice, we can feel mad, sad, afraid, ashamed, guilty, jealous, exploited, anxious, depressed, manipulated, pessimistic, or optimistic. 

Of these choices, I like the last one the best. 

It doesn't matter to anyone else or the people of the Earth; it surely does matter to me. Therefore, I choose to be optimistic 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 25, 2016 at 9:38pm

That condo is busy and dark, <chuckle>. Novel real estate.

Joan, I won't know about alternative medications till my appointment on Feb 2nd. The cardiologist is away till then.

I'm glad your weather has reverted to March-like. Could be worse.

A few days ago I lightly bumped my right big toe against a chair leg, while it was still sore from podiatrist attention two days before. It got infected and today the nail had to be removed. She said it would regrow in 6 months. Hurts.

Ever since I turned 71 it's simultaneous multiple health challenges. Meanwhile I've been fighting a fungal skin infection for 3 months. Finally improving after the dermatologist reversed the GP's misdiagnosis of a bacterial infection. Still, things could be worse. Many AN members have weathered far worse.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 25, 2016 at 7:53pm

This has nothing to do with anything, but the link below is to an article about a condo for sale here in Chicago.  The place is so outlandishly jaw-dropping that I just had to share it. 

(The selling price is very cheap, but the costs to redecorate will certainly pile up if you don't like the current theme.)

Curbed Chicago: 70s Time Capsule

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 23, 2016 at 7:43pm

Ruth, this is dreadful news about your reaction to Rx. Do you have alternative drugs that you can use? Your photo of the cross-eyed cat makes me laugh even as I feel for your condition. 

Thanks for this lovely birthday wish. It perfectly reflects how I feel about reaching this august age. 

This week offers us a cold, wet, windy week, just like a typical March day. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 23, 2016 at 6:24pm

Happy Birthday, Joan!                        image source

I despise religiously-motivated persecution of LGBT too, k.h.ky.

It looks as if the Ranexa prescribed three days ago won't work for me. I developed a side effect of being unable to merge the images from my two eyes, plus killer nausea. <sigh>

Haven't had links in messages lately, so I don't know about that.

Hugs to all.

image source

Comment by Jennifer on January 23, 2016 at 6:08pm
No email problems here.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 23, 2016 at 5:12pm

Just curious if anybody else here is experiencing this same technical email problem as I am....

My notification emails from A/N have always included clickable hyperlinks to the the posted messages and groups.  Suddenly that's no longer happening.  I am having to copy and paste the link from the email. 

My email settings for A/N and my personal email have not changed.  Additionally, emails I receive from all other sources do not have this problem.  Anyone else?  

 

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