Loners and Introverts


Loners and Introverts

Group for those who are Introverted and those of us who are Loners. Someone who doesn't need other people around them to validate their own existence.

Members: 88
Latest Activity: Dec 18, 2015

Discussion Forum

Introversion is Thoughtfulness

Started by Ram Bansal Dec 5, 2015. 0 Replies

Extroverts are exhibitionists without valuable thoughts. Their work is exploiting what introverts around them do. Thus the whole world has creations of introverts but these creations are publicized as creations of extroverts. Introversion is an…Continue

Tags: exploitation, extrovert, introvert, contentment

Understand the Inner Life of Workplace Introverts

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Gerald Payne Jul 15, 2015. 1 Reply

Society's Perception of IntrovertsBut introversion tends not to play well in our mostly social, fast-paced, extroverted American world. Indeed, says Marti Olsen Laney, author of…Continue

INTJ - Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Judging

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 25, 2015. 4 Replies

To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of "definiteness", of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive, is actually of a very specific rather than a general nature; its source lies…Continue

Why you should tell people you are an Introvert

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 25, 2015. 11 Replies

I have unfortunately had the response of "I can help fix you" ... which after that I no longer want to be friends with that person. Here is a good blog about telling others about being an Introvert.Telling others you are an introvert is often more…Continue


Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Ryan Shields Apr 16, 2015. 1 Reply

Introverts, prefer to avoid excitement and pressure from the outside world. They're more reserved and thoughtful, unwilling to make quick decisions. They prefer quiet environments. Introverts feel most comfortable with a few close friends—some, in…Continue

Introversion: The Often Forgotten Factor Impacting the Gifted

Started by Steph S. Apr 15, 2015. 0 Replies

Introversion: The Often Forgotten Factor Impacting the GiftedAuthors: Jill D. Burruss and Lisa KaenzigCitation: From the Virginia Association for the Gifted Newsletter. 1999 Fall 21(1).You know at least one or perhaps are one: the child who…Continue

Introverts’ and extroverts’ brains really are different, according to science

Started by Steph S. Mar 9, 2015. 0 Replies

This is a very good article - I post some of it here for you all to read.…Continue

7 Positives Only Introverts Would Understand

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Jimmy McCann Jan 14, 2015. 3 Replies

There’s an avalanche of information about introverts on the web. The great thing about it is that it helps a lot of people realize their own introverted tendencies. Many introverts are beginning to understand why situations commonly perceived as…Continue

Quiet Quiz: Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert?

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by WendyW Mar 13, 2014. 2 Replies

This is an informal 12 question quiz, adapted from Quiet by Susan Cain, based on characteristics of introversion commonly accepted by contemporary researchers.  Take the quiz at the link below: …Continue

Why Introverts May Be More Successful Than You

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Steph S. Dec 20, 2013. 1 Reply

Why Introverts May Be More Successful Than You"as a recent Huffington Post article pointed out, there have been many exceptional…Continue

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Comment by Steph S. on August 16, 2013 at 4:35pm

Kyrie - welcome to the group.

Comment by Steph S. on July 11, 2013 at 10:26am

Samantha welcome to the group.

Comment by Steph S. on June 27, 2013 at 12:09am

Philip welcome to the group.

Comment by Prog Rock Girl on June 26, 2013 at 10:39am

I'm a little like that. At parties I basically have "on" and "off" nights. I like work with people that involves helping people, but hate customer service or sales jobs. I've been painfully shy when I felt threatened, a little shy when unsure of things, and not very shy in places I felt comfortable. I think I've been the life of the party sometimes but sometimes small talk is so amazingly awkward. All in all I'm still basically introspective.

Comment by Nerdlass on June 25, 2013 at 4:29pm

The quickie test put me at ISFP, but in almost all of them, it was hard to decide. I feel split right down the middle. x.x

Comment by Steph S. on June 25, 2013 at 11:32am

Angela - welcome to the group!

Comment by Steph S. on June 25, 2013 at 9:16am

Nerdlass have you taken the Myers-Briggs personality test? That is how I know where I am on the scale.

Comment by Steph S. on June 25, 2013 at 9:15am

Nerdlass welcome to the group.

Comment by Nerdlass on June 24, 2013 at 7:02pm

I need some help, y'all. I'm actually not sure where I fall on the grid of ...vertism. o.O

I guess what I'd term myself as is a situational introvert. Large gatherings, especially where I don't know many people, I turn into such a wallflower... But if I know people or if I have a job to do (like teaching), I can get pretty extroverted.

I recently went to a social event that had a good 100+ people. Despite knowing a good 15-20 of these people, I still managed to feel like an outcast and generally not have a good time at all. Needless to say, I won't be going back to that event, when it crops up again. However, when I posted about it to FB, one of my friends was shocked. He said I was the life of the party whenever we've hung out... but we tend to hang out in small groups and hello, they know me!

So, where do you guys think that puts me? I feel like a grey or at least striped version of both introvert and extrovert.

Comment by Steph S. on June 24, 2013 at 6:07pm

Kathleen welcome to the group.


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