Loners and Introverts


Loners and Introverts

Group for those who are Introverted and those of us who are Loners. Someone who doesn't need other people around them to validate their own existence.

Members: 89
Latest Activity: May 12, 2017

Discussion Forum

Introversion is Thoughtfulness

Started by Ram Bansal. Last reply by tom sarbeck Oct 10, 2016. 3 Replies

Extroverts are exhibitionists without valuable thoughts. Their work is exploiting what introverts around them do. Thus the whole world has creations of introverts but these creations are publicized as creations of extroverts. Introversion is an…Continue

Tags: exploitation, extrovert, introvert, contentment

Understand the Inner Life of Workplace Introverts

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Gerald Payne Jul 15, 2015. 1 Reply

Society's Perception of IntrovertsBut introversion tends not to play well in our mostly social, fast-paced, extroverted American world. Indeed, says Marti Olsen Laney, author of…Continue

INTJ - Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Judging

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 25, 2015. 4 Replies

To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of "definiteness", of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive, is actually of a very specific rather than a general nature; its source lies…Continue

Why you should tell people you are an Introvert

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 25, 2015. 11 Replies

I have unfortunately had the response of "I can help fix you" ... which after that I no longer want to be friends with that person. Here is a good blog about telling others about being an Introvert.Telling others you are an introvert is often more…Continue


Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Ryan Shields Apr 16, 2015. 1 Reply

Introverts, prefer to avoid excitement and pressure from the outside world. They're more reserved and thoughtful, unwilling to make quick decisions. They prefer quiet environments. Introverts feel most comfortable with a few close friends—some, in…Continue

Introversion: The Often Forgotten Factor Impacting the Gifted

Started by Steph S. Apr 15, 2015. 0 Replies

Introversion: The Often Forgotten Factor Impacting the GiftedAuthors: Jill D. Burruss and Lisa KaenzigCitation: From the Virginia Association for the Gifted Newsletter. 1999 Fall 21(1).You know at least one or perhaps are one: the child who…Continue

Introverts’ and extroverts’ brains really are different, according to science

Started by Steph S. Mar 9, 2015. 0 Replies

This is a very good article - I post some of it here for you all to read.…Continue

7 Positives Only Introverts Would Understand

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Jimmy McCann Jan 14, 2015. 3 Replies

There’s an avalanche of information about introverts on the web. The great thing about it is that it helps a lot of people realize their own introverted tendencies. Many introverts are beginning to understand why situations commonly perceived as…Continue

Quiet Quiz: Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert?

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by WendyW Mar 13, 2014. 2 Replies

This is an informal 12 question quiz, adapted from Quiet by Susan Cain, based on characteristics of introversion commonly accepted by contemporary researchers.  Take the quiz at the link below: …Continue

Why Introverts May Be More Successful Than You

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Steph S. Dec 20, 2013. 1 Reply

Why Introverts May Be More Successful Than You"as a recent Huffington Post article pointed out, there have been many exceptional…Continue

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Comment by Steph S. on June 25, 2013 at 9:16am

Nerdlass have you taken the Myers-Briggs personality test? That is how I know where I am on the scale.

Comment by Steph S. on June 25, 2013 at 9:15am

Nerdlass welcome to the group.

Comment by Nerdlass on June 24, 2013 at 7:02pm

I need some help, y'all. I'm actually not sure where I fall on the grid of ...vertism. o.O

I guess what I'd term myself as is a situational introvert. Large gatherings, especially where I don't know many people, I turn into such a wallflower... But if I know people or if I have a job to do (like teaching), I can get pretty extroverted.

I recently went to a social event that had a good 100+ people. Despite knowing a good 15-20 of these people, I still managed to feel like an outcast and generally not have a good time at all. Needless to say, I won't be going back to that event, when it crops up again. However, when I posted about it to FB, one of my friends was shocked. He said I was the life of the party whenever we've hung out... but we tend to hang out in small groups and hello, they know me!

So, where do you guys think that puts me? I feel like a grey or at least striped version of both introvert and extrovert.

Comment by Steph S. on June 24, 2013 at 6:07pm

Kathleen welcome to the group.

Comment by Steph S. on June 14, 2013 at 9:26pm

Nice to have you here John. How is everyone? The group is really growing.

Comment by John Kauffman on April 25, 2013 at 3:37pm

Thanks Steph!

Comment by Steph S. on April 25, 2013 at 1:03pm
Idaho thanks for the link / there's lots of misinformation out there about Introverts. Don't believe everything you read.
Comment by Steph S. on April 25, 2013 at 1:02pm
John welcome to the group!
Comment by Idaho Spud on April 24, 2013 at 9:14am

Yesterday, I saw a PBS show about digestion that had an interesting bit about extraverts and neurotics response to pain in the digestive system.  The neurotics responded by reducing blood pressure and heart rate which probably has a calming affect, while the opposite happened to extroverts.  The video talks about this at about minute 35:  http://video.pbs.org/video/2364996213

They never mentioned Introverts, but it sounds like they were saying that introverts are neurotics.  Comments?

Comment by Steph S. on April 23, 2013 at 11:03am

Roger welcome to the group.


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