That's a bad way to go about it, yeah. Sit back, let the women run things, and enjoy the very high female:male ratio.
I found that a better approach, back when I hung out with some pagans, before the silliness of the whole thing finally got to me. There wasn't much of an atheist community at the time, so at least you could be sure of avoiding Christians in that sort of group.
...before the silliness of the whole thing finally got to me.
Joseph, I departed for a different reason. My needs, resulting in part from having studied math and science and wanting to study law, differed from theirs.
If you claim to be Asatru, but you don't know the first damned thing about Norse mythology, there's something wrong with your theology.
Just a tad! I've been lucky - I haven't run into any Asatru that were so poorly informed...