I would like to have a filter that would identify those who are dishonest, unreliable, undependable, assaultive, sexist, or racist. Too many times I have been in a position in which I felt threatened or invaded sexually. I can't see it coming and get caught, by a closed door or by a piece of furnature.
I had a school friend who could send out signals to men at a bar where we relaxed after class and the next time I saw her she would tell me of the wild time she had with one of the men.
I don't want that kind of attention and believew I don't send out welcome signals to men who want to fuck. I don't think I invite such treatment and I think the aggression is in the men who initiate the action.
Now, I am an old woman and have no desire for sexual activity. When will I be too old for men to stop acting like sophomoric college men?
I feel for the young women who want to have control of their bodies. My college friend wanted the attention, and men read her inviting signals. I wish men and women would be able to have or not have such encounters.
That would be a great thing, that filter.
Hold me hyoomin.....