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Dealing with people who invalidate you

Started this discussion. Last reply by tom sarbeck Jan 25. 14 Replies

I just had a spat with a self-righteous bully on this site who used personal information in an attempt to invalidate my feelings and make me feel worse about myself than I already did. Here are some…Continue

Understanding the Highly Sensitive Person

Started this discussion. Last reply by Bertold Brautigan Jan 23. 3 Replies

Being an HSP (highly sensitive person) simply isn't acceptable in our society. "Grow a thick skin!" "Don't be such a crybaby!" "You're a whiner!" I've heard it all and I'm fucking sick of it. I…Continue

Holy crap, I just got booted from the jazz ensemble!

Started this discussion. Last reply by Pat Jan 14. 18 Replies

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tom sarbeck replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Where are the Lysistratas when women need them? "
Jan 25
Plinius replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"You tell it so nicely, Ruth! I've always felt very stupid about not understanding the situation until I have had some time to cool down."
Jan 25
Ruth Anthony-Gardner replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"End the conversation as soon as an invalidating statement is given [my bad for not figuring it out sooner]. This has been a problem for me, when game-playing people attacked. I didn't always realize what was happening until I was out of the…"
Jan 24
Ruth Anthony-Gardner replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Good point, Laura. Problem is in most cultures girls are raised male-defined, taught to seek male approval instead of self-approval. This makes us easier targets, by cultural design."
Jan 24
Bertold Brautigan replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Nor would I want to try. (They have women in the army.) Tom, I love it when you take me literally."
Jan 24
Loren Miller replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Bertold, you took the words right out of my mouth – FUCK 'em.  Better yet, IGNORE 'EM.  Don't give them attention or an audience, which is likely what they want more than anything else.You have far better things to do…"
Jan 24
Plinius replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Thanks Michael! "
Jan 24
Michael Penn replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"I can identify and totally understand. In my case I ran off to Texas for 20 years to get away from him and my mom. I came back here in 1993 and now everyone is dead except him. We are not great freinds and I call him on his bullshit, but he is the…"
Jan 24
tom sarbeck replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Bert, Dorothy Parker once joked about fucking the whole Chinese army. I doubt that anyone, even you, can do everyone. "
Jan 24
Joan Denoo replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Atheist in FundyLand, I am sorry you interpreted my responses to your questions and my personality as, This is what I wrote you: From Joan Denoo to Atheist in FundyL…Sent Jan 10Laura, this is an outline of a process for gaining optimism that…"
Jan 24
Plinius replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"I'm so sorry to hear about your loss! You're very brave, Michael, to stick with someone who invalidates you. I couldn't do it - after 45 years in which my father tried to hurt me and my husband at every step I broke contact, and even…"
Jan 24
Bertold Brautigan replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Understanding the Highly Sensitive Person
"I think being gay and growing up in a red-neck little town in the beefheart of the Midwest made me a bit of a HSP; it sure as hell made me an artful dissembler. It took me a few arduous years toiling in the vineyards of pop psychology and occultism…"
Jan 23
Bertold Brautigan replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Laura-- You can only be invalidated by someone if you believe you need validation from them. You don't. There's an old saying that covers this admirably: Fuck 'em all -- the long, the short and the tall. Don't leave us; your…"
Jan 23
Michael Penn replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Understanding the Highly Sensitive Person
"Am I highly sensitive? I may be. I'm finding that I get more sensitive the older I get. I don't think age is a factor really. For me it's the fact that I'm in a world of people who do not have good grounds for what they believe.…"
Jan 23
Michael Penn replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Dealing with people who invalidate you
"Good post. My stepdad has always invalidated me during my lifetime. Part of it was because "a child should be seen and not heard" and the rest centers around the fact that I didn't continue studies in the ministry. Anything he could…"
Jan 23
tom sarbeck replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion Understanding the Highly Sensitive Person
"A in F, Aron's "...being observant before acting" seems very much like the hyper-alertness that is the first of the four ways the mind protects itself. Collectively, the four ways the mind protects itself are widely known as the post…"
Jan 21

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At 7:10pm on January 9, 2014, AgeOfAtheists14 said…

that's funny icon!~!!

At 7:15pm on May 16, 2011, Ruth Anthony-Gardner said…
Greetings, Atheist in FundyLand! I notice you haven't been active at Atheist Nexus lately. <sigh> Sometimes it can seem a bit fragmented, with different groups for every interest. Please consider a group for socializing, where we talk about whatever's on our minds, Hang With Friends. :D You might feel more at home.
At 3:19am on February 1, 2011, Ellemar said…

If you're lonely, send me a message! I like to talk and talk and talk. I followed your link to your blog and like it very much.

Sorry if I sound like a creeper, but the thought of someone being lonely always makes me sad.

At 1:15am on December 24, 2010, Jonathan Hugo Pienaar said…

Love your logo ;) I see we enjoy some some of the same things, like Brian Dalton (Mr Deity). If you are into podcasts, take a listen to Chariots of Iron and Atheist News - I think there is a lot there you can relate to.

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At 6:30pm on December 18, 2010, Dr. Terence Meaden said…

Hello and welcome to this wonderful world of freethinkers with their good sense, intelligent reasoning, and freedom from believing in fictional gods.

Religion means control, which sadly so often starts by indoctrinating innocent children. 

Terry Meaden 
We invite you to join the busy group "ORIGINS: Universe, Astronomy, Life, Earth, Humans, Religion, Evolution, Darwin..." with its 370 discussion topics and 2200 members.
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At 7:32am on December 17, 2010, Carla said…

Hello & welcome :)

At 11:15pm on December 16, 2010, Atheist Princess said…

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