So I've been talking to this girl for a few months, and we've fallen in love, and it turns out she was secretly a JW all along, now yeah, I get why she'd hide it, sure, but she's been trying to just…Continue
"She does have virtue, she's been raised JW and hasn't really had a push to question her views before. To her credit when I did start asking the questions she couldn't answer, she did accept that parts of her faith made no sense and…"
"There is a chance that she starts to find out what she is, what she wants, what she believes or not, but that will probably estrange her family - quite a painful process. Perhaps she'll take your views for that's the easy…"
"For what its worth, I've been in very similar situation. I understand how difficult it can be to see from the inside out. Maybe this is one reason hindsight is 20/20 ha!
It is almost certain that you are exposing her to ideas she's never…"
"She's not trying to change me, though, she's saying she'd prefer me to be a JW but she's never tried to make me, her and I decided to just talk it through and decide what we both believe, but suddenly her family started to stop…"
"She has said that if I don't convert, she'll end up being inevitably drawn away from her religion, and she seems okay with whatever religious belief she holds as long as we're together, I'm grateful for the advice but I'm…"
"Run, don't walk, away from this relationship. Young people tend to think with their hormones. Older people tend to think with their brains. Imagine yourself 25 years from now. If she is still religious, and you are not, "
"I seriously doubt that the young lady is ready to leave her religion and family for you, or if she is even capable of doing so. Her age and maturity is a factor here and so is yours. I can remember being 17 and so upset over losing a girlfriend that…"
"I'm just posting this to ask if anyone's ever had something similar or the same happen to them, or anything they've heard of happening to friends, I really, REALLY need to know if this happens, if it's just coincidence then I…"