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I've stopped the discussions with my sister.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 24. 3 Replies

Hello fellow atheists,As you might have noticed, I deleted my blog. To show this was not out of rage, or indignation I would like to shortly explain myself. Jim the Atheist posted some really…Continue

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Ruth Anthony-Gardner replied to Bar Weinig's discussion I've stopped the discussions with my sister.
"This seems a good step. Thanks for sharing."
Mar 24
Bar Weinig replied to Bar Weinig's discussion I've stopped the discussions with my sister.
"Thank you, Jim. That means a lot to me."
Mar 24
Jim the Atheist replied to Bar Weinig's discussion I've stopped the discussions with my sister.
"I'm impressed.  Your actions do prove that one of my more merciless accusations was absolutely wrong.  You are not a narcissist. That's clear now. Many of us (myself absolutely included) have narcissistic tendencies that, while…"
Mar 24
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I've stopped the discussions with my sister.

Hello fellow atheists,As you might have noticed, I deleted my blog. To show this was not out of rage, or indignation I would like to shortly explain myself. Jim the Atheist posted some really poignant comments. I did highlight his first because I really did start the blog to get outside perspectives. His comments were what I started the blog for! I just own my own perspective and it is far from perfect. And, although I'm not as far gone as Jim suggested, his points were definitely valid.I spend…See More
Mar 24
Jim the Atheist left a comment for Bar Weinig
"Thanks for friending me.   I had read the previous reply where you told me to stop wasting my time on you, and so this is a pleasant surprise.   Your willingness to remain diplomatic for a very long time is worthy of…"
Mar 23
Bar Weinig commented on Bar Weinig's blog post I got an awesome comment on this blog.
Mar 23
Bar Weinig commented on Bar Weinig's blog post I got an awesome comment on this blog.
"@ Jim the Atheist: I was under the impression I got your message already. Apparently you do not think so. For you to start underlining your disapproval hammers the point home, but one opinion is just one opinion. I try my best to weigh my choices.…"
Mar 23
Jim the Atheist commented on Bar Weinig's blog post I got an awesome comment on this blog.
"Bar, your ability to stay positive is exceptional. The problem is that this is accomplished through deflection. I'm the new guy, and if the veterans here are willing to keep listening to the saga of you bothering your sister, full steam…"
Mar 23
Bar Weinig commented on Bar Weinig's blog post I got an awesome comment on this blog.
"So if I understand you correctly: life is to short to care this much. This has been said to me on a number of occasions. Thanks again! Maybe that's just what I needed to hear. I will keep that in mind."
Mar 23
Jim the Atheist commented on Bar Weinig's blog post Specific question I would love some help with
"Tom Sarbeck is so right. And the evidence is right there in Bar's language. Here are Bar's words: "I give her the power to steer the topics. I am trying to keep it that way, so she does not feel attacked." He has power to…"
Mar 23
Tom Sarbeck commented on Bar Weinig's blog post Specific question I would love some help with
"Bar, in your posts I see what looks like a need to control, even dominate, Tina."
Mar 23
Jim the Atheist commented on Bar Weinig's blog post I got an awesome comment on this blog.
"I assume responding here is appropriate rather than on the other thread. If not please cut and paste as before. The explanation for why any of us come to this forum is tempieary pain management. Human contact causes a changed neurochemical state.…"
Mar 23
Loren Miller commented on Bar Weinig's blog post I got an awesome comment on this blog.
"Bar, this is a point I have made a lot as regards religion: it amounts to an addiction, and what is one of the first issues someone faces when quitting an addiction?  WITHDRAWAL!!!  People DO become addicted – to the rectitude of…"
Mar 23
Bar Weinig commented on Bar Weinig's blog post Specific question I would love some help with
"@ Jim the Atheist: I have written a reaction to your comment in a separate blog-post here: http://atheistnexus.org/profiles/blogs/i-got-an-awesome-comment-on-this-blog"
Mar 23
Jim the Atheist commented on Bar Weinig's blog post Specific question I would love some help with
"I'm new here. I noticed you said that if you told her what you were thinking, it would end the relationship. So my question is why not let the relationship end? If it is because you can't handle life without her, it seems love has made you…"
Mar 23

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Noord Brabant
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I am a secular humanist, ex-Presbyterian (Gereformeerd Vrijgemaakt in the Netherlands), 38 years old, Dutch, atheist... I am here because I would love to have a place to write about discussions I am having with my fundamentalist sister.

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At 6:55pm on March 23, 2019, Jim the Atheist said…

Thanks for friending me.   I had read the previous reply where you told me to stop wasting my time on you, and so this is a pleasant surprise.   Your willingness to remain diplomatic for a very long time is worthy of commendation. On a different topic I was looking into your screen name in German and Dutch and then cross your forward sing it to thd city where you live.  It looked like it was a bar or tavern there.  That looks like a really neat little place. If I'm ever in the Netherlands I hope to a swing by there.

 
 
 

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