It is strange how informing your family of your atheism is necessary but it seemed to be for me as well. Otherwise your family continually refers to you as a religious person which is bothersome and inacurrate. Expect your family to challenge you and try to not compete with them about your views.
We understand the problems, Kenneth, but you are the cleverest one in your family. So welcome to this friendly meeting place with freethinkers who recognise that religion is a huge deception aimed at controlling vulnerable superstitious people, including defenceless children; and
how tragic and inexcusable it is that women and minorities have been oppressed these last two thousand years and even longer.