Welcome. I assume you have looked into joining Freethought Fort Wayne. My wife and I are a bit older than you (mid-50s) and haven't felt very comfortable with FFW, but we suspect our age has something to do with it. At any rate I'm on Facebook. Feel free to contact us.
Hi McKinsey Redmond, and welcome to this friendly meeting place where freethinking non-theists recognise that religion is largely a huge deception aimed at controlling vulnerable superstitious people, including defenceless children; and
how tragic and inexcusable it is that women and minorities have been oppressed these last two thousand years and even longer.