"You usually get someone well-intentioned, but with no background in counseling. The ones I've had haven't been awful. He/She will give me some friendly, common sense advice. Then, gives her some common sense advice.....but tells her…"
"I wasn't raised religious. But, for a three or four year span, I decided to give it an honest try. (Turns out its all BS, by the way. Surprise.)
My wife and met in Church during that time. We've been married for about six years now.…"
"Wait a minute. Are you trying to say that something my pastor told me ..... might not be true? *shudder* Next, you'll try to tell me that I should support the evils of condom use, eh?
Where will your blasphemy end?"
"Thanks, Joseph. Exactly.
Unfortunately, since we are men, we are too immature. Psychopaths, every one of us. We are not worthy to respond, and if we disagree, it is evidence of our extreme cruelty.
Its easy to get your feelings hurt, blame…"
"Only women suffer pain at broken relationships? Does reading about the pain of men convince you of anything, or does it leave you cold and unmoved?
Caring about the suffering of women, but being indifferent to the suffering of men is not a virtue.…"
"Is there any evidence that a monogamous life is better for women, or this is just a feeling?
What if research showed out that monogamy is worse for men...would that matter?
Does your definition of morals, "not harming others", apply to…"
"I'm a tech lead consultant for a major IT firm. 20 years dev experience. Mostly database-heavy web apps, many platforms. Though I do mostly corporate-ish, rather than consumer-ish, pretty stuff. But maybe I can help."
"This is great news. It's so easy to get caught up in my own little world sometimes. I live in Georgia. And here just about everyone I know outside my family, regardless of race, education, age, or gender tend to be involved in some form of…"
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Hello Oneman, and welcome to this friendly meeting place with freethinkers who recognise that religion is a huge deception aimed at controlling vulnerable superstitious people, including defenceless children; and
how tragic and inexcusable it is that women and minorities have been oppressed these last two thousand years and even longer.