Work is how we make a living. For many, we spend more time with our coworkers, than with our spouse. I do. Work gets us our living, our benefits, if we are lucky, some savings, security, and the ability to pay for what we need to pay for. Work has psychological costs, and psychological rewards. If we are very lucky, work gives…Continue
I am forced to use Windows, my program at work will only work with the damn vile awkward heinous Windows product. When my old computer quit working - because I dropped it - the new ones only came with Windows 8.0. I tolerated this downgrade because had no choice - stupid program, awkward, less user friendly, takes more clicks and more actions to do the same stuff. Over the past year or so, it asks me if I want 8.1 and I always say no. Stop asking me, dammit! Leave me…Continue
Huffington Post This Mesmerizing Photo Series Captures The Regal Beauty Of Aging Dogs
My own best friend, and his best friend. …Continue
Today I returned from a 2 week vacation. It was much needed. Almost cancelled - Been quite ill and didn't feel great when I left. But, I thought what I needed most was rest, de-stress, and minimal pressure, and this being a cruise vacation, that's what I got. Today, tired from the flight, but otherwise feeling SO much better!
Our cruise started in Venice, then went to Athens, Ephesus, Istanbul, Naples / Pompeii, Florence Marseilles, and ended in Barcelona. I was so worn…Continue
This via The Friendly Atheist Blog, with links as added. A big aspect of the story is one courageous Muslim man - Biram Dah Abeid - who is fighting Islamic - supported slavery in Mauritania.
"Slavery in Mauritania Is Alive and Well, Thanks In No Small Part to Islamic…Continue
Some time back, I was an enthusiastic member of the local skeptics' meetup. It was a chaotic, free form get together where people talked about, just about anything. People got to know each other, discussed their experiences, and I felt a sense of community.
About a year ago, the meetup changed. There was movement toward a more…Continue
This weekend I visited my parent's graves. It's been a bit over 2 years. I still think of them often.
I have no illusions about them looking down on me, or up at me, or whatever. Still, I wanted to visit the cemetery in person. That took a bit of a trip - fly from Portland to St. Louis, then…Continue
This week was challenging. I'm glad it's over. Nothing worth big drama, just a lot.
My adjuvant treatment, for gastric sarcoma, leaves me fatigued. I function well at work, in the morning. On hard days, I start to crash-land late morning. On moderate days, I crash-land mid afternoon. I can keep going until the end of the schedule. But it leaves a lot of "homework" and it takes a day to recover.
Three years ago, a "team" of managers harassed me into…Continue
Two scenes at the County fair, here in SW Washington State. It was kind of interesting.
If I had any fire left in me, I might have approached the folks at this booth and caused some mischief. I did not have any fire in me and it would not have accomplished anything.
Since the booth, pictured…Continue
When I am an old man...
I will be surprised I made it that far. If I do.
It's not that far away.
There's a good chance, I won't.
I will consider it funny to have aches and pains.
I already do.
I will not whine about being old.
Or apologize for aging.
I will consider it honorable and amazing.
I will laugh at myself for being funny looking, and bald, and having ears that stick…Continue
Rare type of gastric (stomach) cancer. Health plan is slow about scheduling the biopsy - will not know what to expect until then. Surgery for certain. Maybe chemotherapy. 80% chance for malignancy based on size - CT scan and endoscopy. Size / shape is like an Idaho russet potato.
Somewhere I read, there can be denial, grief, bargaining, anger. I feel none of that. Just, it is what it is. It's a notable moment, I guess. But not like when I saw my parents' decline as…Continue
For the past 2 or 3 years - forget how long - I've been going to a monthly atheist meetup group in my town. Mostly it's been great. I would spend the entire month looking forward to it, and when I could not go, it felt like withdrawal. Some of the locations were a 45 min drive, and even that didn't stop me.
Mostly we have been in a few local restaurants. It changed recently because the meeting place went under. Now at a pizza place, which is fine. I don't know how many…Continue
Not having many friends in the world, and almost no living biological family, the few I have mean a lot. Last week someone, who I love very much, my day to day coworker, told me she got married in Vegas over the weekend. She's a sweet. loving, wonderful person, sincere, caring, and almost relentlessly cheerful. Having her around makes my life so much better. I love her as much as any family member.
It was interesting. I knew she was dating, but she dates around a lot.…Continue
Yesterday I was called by the nursing home where my mother has been cared for during the past 3 years. She has profound Alzheimer's disease. She has not spoken a meaningful word for 2 years, as far as I can tell. I live 2000 miles away. For many years, I tried to move my parents here, where I have plenty of room in my house. I could have given close, attentive care. They didn't want to move. My father died last year.
My mother's name is Maxine. She was born in a…Continue