In this blog post, I propose that its actually impossible to love someone if there is an external threat that exists to compel you to love the person (IE they will kill you, or you will die, or your kids will die, or you wont get the 5 million dollar prize at the end of the show etc.)
If, on the other hand, you are willing to endure eternal torment to be with them and give up eternity in heaven with all the comfort and wealth you could possibly imagine, then THAT would be amazing love.
In short, no one truly loves god, at all. He is a lonely, petty bully who only has pretend friends.
What greater love has a person than this, that they would suffer eternal torment in hell to be with them?