After ruminating on this issue for several months I'm openly declaring that for my own sake, for the sake of my daughter(s), nieces, and females everywhere I will no longer hinder women by being silent regarding harmful aspects of feminism. The women that I love and respect deserve better. It is education that changes the world, therefore:
I will teach my daughter about sex privilege. Both sexes have accepted via tradition things that are known as privileged to their sex. That feminists only focus on the male aspect is sexist and hinders social redefinition of tradition. Privilege is given to the opposite sex by both sexes since time immemorial. The societal norm is a reflection of the sum total of all the negotiations between couples. To redefine privilege, teach positive negotiation skills to girls.
I will teach against the idea of "The Patriarchy". Feminists hang upon this phantom all real and perceived inequalities, the direct result of which is the disempowerment and victimization of both sexes, but especially women. Recognition of inequality is a good thing. Expecting equality is not. Equality is a function of compared ability. People with real ability do not allow obstacles to prevent their work. Those people do not give away their power to act to "The Patriarchy".
I will teach my daughter humanism. All people should be treated equal until they demonstrate that they are not. To treat a stupid person as though they were Einstein is insulting to everyone and beneficial to none. Even worse, feminist altruism by default condones the inequality they purport to combat via the ideas of privilege and patriarchy.
I will teach my daughter to own herself. A person who expects society to guarantee their feelings is a monster. Each person owns their own emotions, thoughts, and actions. If an individual feels threatened by another despite no actual harm against them, then it is only the responsibility of that individual to act to fix their situation. A person who cannot own themselves is worthless to society.
I will teach my daughter why 'rape culture' is a lie. Unlike murder, which in a few situations is totally justified, rape is never justified and always unethical, immoral, evil. To state that a 'rape culture' exists (as defined by feminism) and still condone the continuation of that society is reprehensible. If it is as bad as feminists claim then it would be perfectly insane to continue living in a place where a violent trespass against your person was not only likely, but encouraged and expected. So either feminists are insane, or 'rape culture' is a lie.
I will teach my daughter that through rational self interest she can readily reject any idea that hampers her. This precept alone will cause her to reject the feminist ideologue who would claim her only because of her physiology. Not because of her mind, her ideas, her perseverance, her strength. My daughter will recognize that it is impossible for a powerful self actualized person to accept feminism, theism, altruism or any other relic of a bygone age. Willfully becoming a victim can lead only to destruction of rational thought and action.