My brother sent around his new dating site profile for me, sister and mom to review. And he's listed religion as "Atheist but not too serious about it." Woo-hoo! I'm not entirely alone! Now I gotta get back in touch with my college freshman cousin, since he's starting to doubt god belief :)
My mom is an apologist and huge fan of C.S. Lewis. BUT she's also done some early christian writings study, (from all christian sources) so she may have doubts starting to surface. Plus now two of her three kids have "come out" atheist. Since I broke the news to her a couple months ago we've started talking about evolution, abiogenesis (well, I've told her theories exist anyway), age of the earth, and neuroscience explanations for god belief. I think I'm going to propose a deal to her, that I'll read whatever apologetics book she wants me to, and in exchange she'll read "God Delusion" or watch YouTube videos on why god belief is silly. We'll see if she takes the bait. (So far, she's declined from watching videos that would undermine her faith.)
My sister is hopelessly smitten with Jesus. But she's also a sheep, so if me, brother, and mom all come over to the "dark side" she'll either start to seriously question, or just get more and more into church, if that's even possible. (This is my sister who had to pray about it to decide if Jesus wanted her to loan me money to prevent my three year old and me from getting evicted.)
Yes, I'm an evangelical atheist. Yes, I think proslethyzing is obnoxious. And yes, I'm totally okay with that. If I can get my family to give up their god beliefs, they won't have to waste time crying over my soul, they'll quit trying to "save" my son, and maybe they can let go of the guilt and fear.