I have 2 sides of family......I have nothing to do with my father's side ever and my mother's side hate me as much as I hate them.
I usually do the holiday gathering to be with my mother but she is going elsewhere alone this year so my husband will want a big dinner and we have no kids just the 2 of us so I really don't want to make a huge freakin meal for 2 people but neither of us wants to eat out on thanksgiving..............but this family hates me as much as I hate them. There will be noone there we like, the only thing we want to do while out there is hunt deer or quail....but then others want to join in and we simply have no interest.
You see, I was born out of wedlock and to these so called christian people I am a sin that should have never happened and maybe if they don't look I will go away.............these people have so many dark little secrets and I know them all because I am one of them and they never let me forget it......I am an only child but my mother had been pregnant with another child but she had an abortion so there wasn't another sin.
What would you do?