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On a personal note, I've developed an animated gif technique, sort of “pull quote marries slideshow”. Samples are scattered across various groups, but you can find them easily by going to my twitter account. Each tweet has a link (after the description and before the hashtags) to a visually rich example here at Atheist Nexus. If you like them, please follow me
Welcome, April. I was so touched by your story as well as that of your husband. My story more or less parallels yours minus the church career. I am very confident in my disbelief because as you have said, too, I have no choice. The first confirmation of my deconversion came when a church career lifetime friend of mine deconverted. I don't know why but this always seems to carry more weight as does your story. I would still be a disbeliever but it is always encouraging when someone validates my truth. Best wishes to you and yours as you adjust to your new life. You will make new like-minded friends and I know you will find many of them here.