Good for you for keeping your wife happy! Maybe you will end up liking partner dancing some day.
Tom and I go to various dances on the peninsula. Tonight we are going to check out "Awesome Bob" at the Sequim Elks from 7 to 10. His song selection is a little bit more old-fashioned than we like, but his videos sounded good.
We also run a monthly dance in Port Townsend called Luv2Dance - playing mostly very modern, funky music suitable for West Coast Swing and hip hop, plus a wide variety of other genres. Most people are beginners, so you would not feel out of place! If you want to get on our e-mail list, just let me know. The next one is July 9 at 7:00 pm at the Port Townsend Masonic Hall.