Your golden rules are interesting but are they not slightly inconsistent? That is, if ones eyes are idealistic does this not require that he or she think out of the box? (Thinking out of the box to me is a 'find a way' perspective.)
Thanks. Just so you know - a nun (Sister Max - short for Maxine) read Madeleine L'Engle's "A Wrinkle in Time" to us in sixth grade. I went to the library and got Robert Heinlein's "Have Spacesuit, Will Travel" and, as one eventual result, found myself on the path to atheism. Well done SIstar MaX!