Loners and Introverts


Loners and Introverts

Group for those who are Introverted and those of us who are Loners. Someone who doesn't need other people around them to validate their own existence.

Members: 88
Latest Activity: Feb 3

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Introversion is Thoughtfulness

Started by Ram Bansal. Last reply by tom sarbeck Oct 10, 2016. 3 Replies

Extroverts are exhibitionists without valuable thoughts. Their work is exploiting what introverts around them do. Thus the whole world has creations of introverts but these creations are publicized as creations of extroverts. Introversion is an…Continue

Tags: exploitation, extrovert, introvert, contentment

Understand the Inner Life of Workplace Introverts

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Gerald Payne Jul 15, 2015. 1 Reply

Society's Perception of IntrovertsBut introversion tends not to play well in our mostly social, fast-paced, extroverted American world. Indeed, says Marti Olsen Laney, author of…Continue

INTJ - Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Judging

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 25, 2015. 4 Replies

To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of "definiteness", of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive, is actually of a very specific rather than a general nature; its source lies…Continue

Why you should tell people you are an Introvert

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 25, 2015. 11 Replies

I have unfortunately had the response of "I can help fix you" ... which after that I no longer want to be friends with that person. Here is a good blog about telling others about being an Introvert.Telling others you are an introvert is often more…Continue


Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Ryan Shields Apr 16, 2015. 1 Reply

Introverts, prefer to avoid excitement and pressure from the outside world. They're more reserved and thoughtful, unwilling to make quick decisions. They prefer quiet environments. Introverts feel most comfortable with a few close friends—some, in…Continue

7 Positives Only Introverts Would Understand

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Jimmy McCann Jan 14, 2015. 3 Replies

There’s an avalanche of information about introverts on the web. The great thing about it is that it helps a lot of people realize their own introverted tendencies. Many introverts are beginning to understand why situations commonly perceived as…Continue

Quiet Quiz: Are You an Introvert or an Extrovert?

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by WendyW Mar 13, 2014. 2 Replies

This is an informal 12 question quiz, adapted from Quiet by Susan Cain, based on characteristics of introversion commonly accepted by contemporary researchers.  Take the quiz at the link below: …Continue

Why Introverts May Be More Successful Than You

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Steph S. Dec 20, 2013. 1 Reply

Why Introverts May Be More Successful Than You"as a recent Huffington Post article pointed out, there have been many exceptional…Continue

How introverts react to extrovert bullying

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Steph S. Dec 20, 2013. 7 Replies

“[A]t school you might have been prodded to come “out of your shell”—that noxious expression which fails to appreciate that some animals…Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on May 12, 2017 at 10:13am

Comment by tom sarbeck on July 12, 2016 at 1:46pm

If a loner and ex-introvert may suggest something, search on "Children Learn What They Live" by Dorothy Law Nolte.

Her line "When children live with ridicule, they learn to be shy" spoke to me.

Ms. Nolte omitted and I added the line "When children live with violence, they learn to be fearful."

Comment by Wayne Philips on July 12, 2016 at 10:02am
I'm not specifically a loner really but I don't need to hang around a-holes just to have friends. Currently, I'm on my own little island bc of all the religious ppl in my situation. Everyone I know believes in JC. They thank him for everything including my new job. I want to say FU to all of them. It's crazy that grown ass ppl need to believe in superstition. I know I'm not the only one but no one near me to cuss & discuss day to day crap with.
Comment by Ian Mason on October 9, 2015 at 1:12am

Welcome, all you new members.

Comment by Gale Herman on January 22, 2015 at 3:32pm
I can relate to that somewhat, I rise at 5:30 and collapse at about 21:30 to 22:00 hours. It leaves me a hour to surf on my iPad or read. That's day in and day out until I retire in a couple of years, but till then, I'll be living the 60's all over again!
Comment by Idaho Spud on January 22, 2015 at 12:54pm

Hello old man Herman.  My bedtime is 7 PM MST, so I can get up at 2 AM to start working in my garden.  Some winters I keep the same schedule because it's easier than changing sleep hours twice a year, but some winters, like this one, I go to bed at 11 PM.

Comment by Gale Herman on January 21, 2015 at 10:23pm
Oh, by the way, if I don't respond immediately to anyone's comments tonight, it's only because I reside in a time zone where it's now time for an old man to go to bed.
Comment by Gale Herman on January 21, 2015 at 10:20pm
Thanks, Steph, it's a pleasure to be alone and introverted with all of you; I believe I'll enjoy being a member. (I hope I've met the height requirement.)
Comment by Gale Herman on January 18, 2015 at 10:46pm
Hello to all.
Comment by Idaho Spud on July 11, 2014 at 4:38pm

I was surprised to see my state is relatively loose.  I know mormonism is not tolerant of difference, but it doesn't act on it's intolerant dogma like it used to.  However, I still think it would act on it's intolerance if it were to gain power.


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